Hi ladies, hope you’re all doing wonderful! :) Although I’ve read the handbook several times, and have looked at older posts I still have a few questions regarding first dates.

I have vetted him through text and have noted down any yellow/green flags, but so far I think it’s worth a shot.

1.) How much physical contact is acceptable? Do you hug when you first see them? How abt at the end of the date?

2.) I feel more comfortable sitting next to people rather than face-to-face. Facing them makes me a bit anxious/uncomfortable. Should I make it known to him? Should I ask for special seating myself? Or should I suck it in and sit facing him?

3.) Although silences should be welcomed from time to time, is there anything unique I should ask him to vet (besides indirectly of the porn use, career, closeness family)?

I can’t remember any of the other questions I may have had, but I’ll add them if I do! Any other advice you ladies would wanna share? I’ve never been taken out before so idk what to expect. What I do know is, if it doesn’t workout I will not hesitate to cut off ties :)

Thank you!