I am to the point now where I even notice and get annoyed with the women in my own family and their entitled, overbearing behavior and mistreatment of the men in my family

Rachel794 · 2022-02-07T07:18:46+00:00

I certainly get annoyed with how entitled some women act too. Also I found out I got permanently suspended from Refinery29 because I kept standing for my views and standing up for men. I will take those consequences proudly.

michaelbleu · 2022-02-07T18:48:03+00:00

One of my core memories was tiny me sitting in the cart listening to my mom and the cashier saying how much they hate men, but as we walked to the car she said “not ALL men sweetie, just some.” A growing boy needs self esteem, when I have children, if I have a girl I would never make a sexist comment in front of her, I think that’s so fucking degrading to growing child to be ashamed of who they are

Rachel794 · 2022-02-07T07:11:11+00:00

It also doesn’t help that our media caters to celebrating these bad values in women, while punishing men for them simultaneously.

MRA_TitleIX · 2022-02-07T20:39:26+00:00

My sisters and mom are all extremely needy and pushy, always getting their way and they have their husbands whipped, I’m embarrassed for them. I hate the way my mom treats my dad especially, she is borderline abusive.

It's interesting and par for the course that men who are victims of abusive behavior by their spouse are called "whipped." It's victim blaming and belittling. It implies the victim is less-than or should have done something about it. It doesn't put the blame on the partner who commits the abuse.

When men are abused it is their fault. /s

FortuneNo7 · 2022-02-07T06:35:42+00:00

Once you take the red pill, you can't go back

Potato-Plug · 2022-02-07T02:19:23+00:00

Hello

John_Savage69 · 2022-02-07T16:09:01+00:00

I just "put in my time" at family events, make pleasant small talk, and then leave at an appropriate time. I don't get involved and just ignore all ways my mom and sisters abuse my dad and brother. No point. Would just cause fights. So, I ignore it, and try and have as little contact with them as possible.

karismakats · 2022-02-08T11:24:41+00:00

I have family that I've been frustrated with as well. My own daughter has become obsessed with victimhood, though she doesn't refer to it as that. She has done some awful things to me and then turned around and said that I was hurting her by making her feel guilt over what she did and so I was, basically poisonous to her. I was baffled. She does something to me, I tell her that's not okay and explain to her why, and somehow I ended up the bad guy. So confusing. It's so bad that she has literally decided to take herself out of my life.

I decided that was okay because I don't know her anymore and the way she is acting is just unbelievable. So I told her that space is fine, that we could probably both use some. She wasn't like this before as much. She had her times, but she really got on this bandwagon after joining a group of girls. I think it gave her an excuse to take the pain she feels, from life in general, out on others. She doesn't believe that men need more rights, she's more on the side of women, but also against modern day feminism. She did, however get alot more adversarial when I started talking about how women are hurting men.

It's funny that she thinks I'm a lost cause, but I kinda think she is, atleast for now. Two sides seeing the same thing in each other. I guess it's just that we see we are both immovable in our opinions at the moment. Mothers and daughters.... I never thought political/ social issues like these would tear apart my family. This sense of entitlement and need to be a victim while demonizing others...it's a real problem and it's mostly women that have this issue. I think it's the motivation women have to oppress men. Who better to demonize than a group that's already been targeted and stereotyped with negativity toward women.

ABBucsfan · 2022-02-07T16:07:22+00:00

I actually feel my mom is very much a peace maker and a very kind serving woman, but my dad can be a bit of a bully.

My sisters though? Yeah one has pretty much always looked for someone to take care of her and have always seen her childish reactions with guys in her life. The other is way more independent but I get tired of her calling her husband an idiot when they're both around me and let it be known it bothers me when I hear it

IoSonCalaf · 2022-02-07T14:14:16+00:00

Wow. This sub has been infiltrated. Look at some of these comments.

234566892 · 2022-02-08T15:11:15+00:00

Women are the enemy it's as simple as that

rahsoft · 2022-02-07T11:13:35+00:00

ok,

so what do you want to do about it?

or are you just getting this out of your system ?

are you in a position to be able to say that the behaviour is not acceptable and dehumanizing ?

EnvironmentalWar4627 · 2022-02-07T10:07:23+00:00

Yeah, people that are entitled are the worst. What does this have to do with mens rights though? Do you feel your family members are representative of all women?

Edit: AM I being downvoted because I refuse to judge an entire gender by just a few people? Does that not seem like more of a female dating strategy thing?

syedalired21 · 2022-02-07T06:25:39+00:00

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2022-02-07T20:38:30+00:00

Are you grown or still living at home? Because a teenage boy has less options to maneuver through this kind of situation, though I know you're mostly just venting.

At some point my man, you gotta sit back and let women be women. Like your sister with the laid back personality. Cut her some slack with her neurotic moments. Women are naturally more neurotic (not a pejorative), so shit happens.

Just gotta keep firm boundaries and not be like your dad with women.

SnooJokes1401 · 2022-02-08T21:33:08+00:00

Sounds like you really dodged a bullet in the gene department.

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