Mom thanks Starbucks worker for looking out for her daughter. If it was a woman who talked to her, it wouldn't be the same.

npcomp42 · 2022-02-23T18:05:24+00:00

The usual anti-male bigotry.

Kindly-Town · 2022-02-23T10:19:18+00:00

This entire situation is too much exaggerated and almost staged by a overparanoid woman employee of Starbucks. She was concern about a girl at day time inside the restaurant full of customers while talking to that man who was most probably ugly (which is the only visible factor she used to profile him as a criminal). Really? Is this average restaurant situation even qualify as suspicious?

If only the race of that man was mentioned, they don't afraid to be sexist, but she would be fired for racially profiling a black man.

OctaviaPinfold · 2022-02-23T15:16:44+00:00

So, a man of undisclosed age, not even a hint of him being older so most likely a teen himself or at least not an old guy, tried to talk to a woman in a coffee shop, one of the places where people can do that, and it's suddenly something unimaginable and they talk about the 18-year-old as if she was 13. What the fuck is wrong with these women!? How far can they reach before breaking their backs?

Connect_Stay_137 · 2022-02-23T10:07:36+00:00

Also women: "why don't men ask us out anymore?"

visicircle · 2022-02-23T13:59:54+00:00

Reminds me of when I (31 year old male) would take the subway home from work with my co-worker, a 20 year old blonde co-ed. Fucking white knight interrupted our conversation to make sure she was okay.

Funny thing is, I went home on the same train with my 18 year old Hispanic coworker (I was a college TA), we sat next to each other with our arms on each other's shoulders. Not a peep from anyone.

Most white knights are just listening to their dicks (or uteruses). They could really care less what happens to women in general.

CaveMcMahon33 · 2022-02-24T15:31:37+00:00

There was a story last year in Florida about a waitress looking after someone too. The kid was with his parents at a restaurant. He was skinny and had bruises all over his body. The waitress wrote, "Do you need help? Ok." They thought it was JUST the stepfather hurting him. Turns out, his bio mom would watch and beat him too. Women can be just as abusive.

erik-the-first · 2022-02-23T11:04:55+00:00

Once again women as a group collectively making life difficult for a man that just wanted to talk to girl while she was studying. Men are treated as bad as any group in history and yet its still seen as okay for women to treat them this way. Average men are leaving the dating world in droves and women will realize the golden ticket they think they have between their legs isn't worth what they think it is.

DriftyFlea · 2022-02-23T14:08:42+00:00

Women "why don't men try to flirt or do anything romantic" Also women:

ManofGod1000 · 2022-02-23T15:24:41+00:00

We first have to believe that they are even telling us the true story, let alone the whole story. Therefore, it is most likely a fake story or at least not entirely accurate what they are saying. Also, I can see it now, this 18 year old woman will complain when she cannot find any good man, because she will not talk to anyone. :D Wish I could be a fly on a wall when that happens.

2022-02-24T16:45:46+00:00

We should just give women Hypergamy alarms. It could be a Bluetooth hairclip or activated like siri. These connect to White Knights who immediately get paged to the scene to defend m'ladys honour. That way if a woman's hypergamous filter identifies a man as disgusting DNA then she can dismiss him in real life as easily as on tinder.

Additionally, she should be able to track all men's histories and social media without restrictions so she can retroactively me too them. If she has some post hoc emotional impulse to do so.

AndyBrown65 · 2022-02-23T09:53:13+00:00

“Women are wonderful” Social expectations are that only women can be at risk, not men

RandomHuman2354 · 2022-02-23T19:32:53+00:00

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Ok_Life8947 · 2022-03-11T17:06:40+00:00

This is why i never try to date western white women. Their eagerness to milk their victimhood is a bad combination with a big black guy like myself.

Shammy-Adultman · 2022-02-24T02:49:54+00:00

I have been involved similar situations before, it's just part of being part of a community looking out for those around you.

Notice how diplomatic the Starbucks staff were, just offering the young woman a discrete way to get assistance if she felt unsafe. If the approach was welcomed, then no harm, no foul.

I have also let female co-workers when they have been on the end of sexist jokes or potentially unwanted advances that I have their back if it's unwanted. On 2 occasions I was told it was all good, they don't mind, on one occasion I was told that it did make them feel uncomfortable and victimised but they just wanted to ignore it. On all occasions, I respected their wishes and that was the end of it.

Are people on this sub really going to pretend they've never seen a creepy dude impose himself upon a disinterested and uncomfortable female?

MisterBowTies · 2022-02-23T16:38:11+00:00

The amount of coverage this is getting here is why mensrights isn't taken seriously. None of us know the situation or what was actually happening, and it is a very easy target for people to point at this and say "see they are complaining because a woman was looking out for someone else" was she overreacting? Probably, but this method has saved people before.

aceishereforart · 2022-02-23T16:55:47+00:00

Something people aren’t noting in the comments is that the only reason the barista did anything was because the man was talking loudly and the girl looked uncomfortable. She did not go after the man or publically embarrass him. She was very non-confrontational and the girl ended up being ok and not uncomfortable. An employee saw possible early warning signs of discomfort and just wanted to make sure everything was alright

Title	Mom thanks Starbucks worker for looking out for her daughter. If it was a woman who talked to her, it wouldn't be the same.
Author	smoshylumb8
Upvotes	74
Comments	66
Date	February 23, 2022 9:39 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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