So inspired by a recent post highlighting the dating lanscape of Gen Z girls and having a talk with a sad pathetic loser with a kind heart that was lamenting his failure as a mate based on his Tinder success rate I tough I'd write this.

Yes it's this easy, but this is with years of experience and hindsight. I know very well that was is a stepping stone for naturals, guys with the look and guys with balls freshly drained - can seem like a clift for the guy that can't even think straight when the cute MILF cashier tells a joke.

Caveat1: Work out. First strength, then endurance and then calistenics for that porn star experience. NON NEGOTIABLE!!! Think of it as a sentence until you get out of incel jail. In addition to this - also submit yourself to regular grooming and housework. I don't care about your opinion. Just do it, you will get to talk after you get fucks. Last note: wardrobe. Spend 500$ on clothes that people wear, not clothes you like. You can do it at a rate of 50-200/ month./ I don't believe you have internet but don't have the money for an article of clothing that makes you look like part of the human race.

Caveat2: You can't be a virgin, or insecure about "performance". Go find a thai massage, hooker or fly to Oregon/amsterdam/thailand. Get it out of your fucking system like it's a wart on your dick. At worst you get a STD, which you can treat with medicine. But your brain block, that has stayed with you and has done more damage to your ability to be intimate than any STD I know.

Caveat3: You will not find love with this "program". Women touching you, taking your dick, calling you daddy do not love you. It's just how the female sex act looks. It's a fantasy women give themselves to make casual sex more meaningful and enjoyable. Indulge if you want, but understand IT'S NOT LOVE. You will however find through sex the emotional balance and ability to understand other people - that can then help you understand what love and genuine connection is however.

Step 1. Be social, do stuff, meet women OFFLINE!!! The dude I was talking about has a kind face, and is 6'6. He has no full body picture. Online is literally a beauty pageant for men. Unless you that 5'2 midget with the fuck boy face - DON"T! Women are attracted to competence and men doing shit. Get out there and put yourself in situations where women can see you do stuff. Seriously.

Step 2. Be kind. There has never been a time when kindness and being personable was more rare and required more balls. Now, major clarification. Kindness is not niceness. Kindness comes from strenght and is something you give. Never something you are asked for, or pushed into giving. Any time someone asks something, be a cheeky motherfucker and ask for something back. If you are not neurotypical this contradiction made your head reset. But trust, it works. Always be kind, and want to help. Never agree to help or give help to someone asking for it. Especially when not asking you for it directly. Note for non-neurotypicals - this is not to get people to like you - this is to showcase that you have a caring and giving nature - you aren't traumatized and don't come with an inferiority complex - while the denial of service showcases your ability to stand for your own and enforce boundaries. The giving WILL NOT SCORE POINTS, the attitude of giving when I want (emphasis on the I)- is what scores the points.

Step 3. Never hide your dick as the late Tom T. would say. Sex is not bad, sex is not shameful, sex is not predatory (regardless of your fantasies), sex is just 2 adults having fun and giving one another pleasure. When you proposition a woman - it is not with the energy: give me your body. It is with the energy, I want to play with your body. Even in the most BDSM scenario, and the most vulgar approach - the difference between chumps and chads is that chads always have the playful energy behind the most coldest of eyes. This very subtle thing makes the difference between a chump that wants her body in exchange for his life. And a chav that just wants to have fun with her like a 15 year old skamp. Master this, master not being ashamed, not avoiding sexual topics, not judging and being forward and telling women you want to spend time with them or you find them attractive and want to spend time with them. And when you do, have fun, enjoy the time, her attention, her reactions, her body, her soft skin, her wet mouth. Let yourself be that 10 year old that saw a breast for the first time and have at it. It's ok to be silly and fun. SHe already likes you, what happens now is just silliness and fun.

That's all. Nothing complicated, but I acknowledge it's difficult. Go out and slay. May 2022 be a year of new experiences, and fun.