My friends and I went for brunch today and they were going to pick me up near my house so I went to a nearby shop to meet them. I was having a nice time looking out the window and people watching when some dumb dude in a car spotted me and was staring at me, then he did a U turn. I was like oh no, I hope this loser doesn't come over to talk to me. When I realized he was gawking I looked away and frowned which might be the universal come fuck me stare? I thought the negative body language would have indicated my complete lack of interest. I didn't see him so I felt so relived, I was about to start playing Candy crush and then who walks in? He heads straight to me and says "What are you doing here? Are you a student?". About a month ago I had a similar encounter with a scrote who actually sat at my table and started talking to me, I was a dumb-ass and said maybe I could be that guys friend but today I know better.

Today I just said "NO" and got up and headed out the door. He says "really?" and I said "have a nice day!" and bolted out. He was shocked I left, he did not understand my shock that he f'd up my relaxation time with myself. I was so pissed because I already saw the writing on the wall, you can't tell some weirdo like that you don't want to talk to them or answer their intrusive questions because like the last guy they smile and keep going on and on and eventually want your #. I've tried to be nice to guys and ended up getting cursed out, called a bitch etc. It's just a headache no matter what.

I just wanted to wait for my friends and he ruined it. A month ago I was initially rude to the man who sat at my table, he said he was only in town for 2 weeks so I let my guard down, its been nearly 2 months he is still here so it was a lie, one he used on purpose to get me to talk. He said he wanted to make friends and I was like okay but I'm not interested in more, gave my # and his 1st text was like you look good, hit me up, I'd text more today but was busy. Ewww I do not care I texted him that my intentions were clear, I didn't appreciate him and to never text me again.

For today's scrote can you at least say hi first before asking nosy ass questions or better yet not make a u turn if you see someone pretty minding her own business in a shop. I rolled my eyes as he walked in, get a clue! I wasn't looking at him with interest at all. I hate that I can't just say please go away and that be the end of it forever. One guy who cursed me out lost his shit because I said "I'm sorry but I'm tired and don't feel like talking".

Also wtf, this dude like me was another black person and we are in an isolated mostly white area, the last guy was also black and idk what they want me say when they ask what I'm doing here. "Oh not sure brother, I got lost on the voyage to Africa, are you here to take me back?" you're here too so don't use that as a pick up ? please go away.