Western Men Going overseas to find a wife.

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-05-12T12:46:02+00:00

Something similar involving british women

AChromaticHeavn · 2022-05-12T15:47:03+00:00

According to my bf, this is attributed to women wanting what other women have, and women living by the "if I can't have him neither can you" mentality. It can also be racially motivated (don't dilute the stock).

Dandyman-GM · 2022-05-12T13:14:18+00:00

the plan was for the subpar men to die off, leaving the rest as breeding stock and soldiers. The Thai wives movement has allowed men to circumvent this act of eugenics. Please understand, Modern Feminism, unlike its predecessors, is NOT about equality, it is misandry. this was to reduce the population of men to the small handful worthy of existence and let the rest to die alone. The Thai wives movement has assured that men will have the families they want with wives who love them, children that will be more mentally stable, and a home to call home instead of a death bed they return to at the end of the day.

casra888 · 2022-05-12T14:29:55+00:00

The swedish women see it as losing control of the men. It's like when white women in America get all pussy when a good quality white guy married a black woman. It slaps then in the face that they are not a monopoly and men do have options. Instead of striving to be better partners, they just get pissed.

AndyBrown65 · 2022-05-12T12:45:04+00:00

Women are never happy. They hate being whistled at, hate not being whistled at.

Sex is one area where women have it over men, so when men don’t “follow their rules “ they hate it

functionalsociopathy · 2022-05-12T13:55:59+00:00

It was never actually about value. If it was these women would actually have something to offer in relationships. Feminism is a social movement predicated on female social dominance, which means making women feel superior to men, and women don't like to date down. So the women who fall into the feminist trap keep petulantly demanding more regardless of how much the men are offering.

The men giving up on local women didn't factor into their equation, and as a result the only way to maintain their illusion of social dominance is to try and ban foreign women.

I'm glad that this social paradigm of dropping the deadweight that is feminist inclined women is taking off.

Krouser1522 · 2022-05-12T15:09:45+00:00

Yeah , I married a Filipino Woman . Best decision ever. Done with American women , feminist nonsense.

MrPernicious · 2022-05-12T14:51:43+00:00

because they're losing control over the one thing that they have agency over, sex and relationships. if men are outsourcing sex from more traditionally feminine countries, they no longer need to put up with the feminist drivel of their native women.

TheRabid · 2022-05-12T14:14:52+00:00

Reap what you sow? I don't understand the problem. I thought that they would have been happier, no?

stephenkodampuly666 · 2022-05-12T14:15:08+00:00

Try shaming women that goes overseas to marry someone, suddenly it becomes "men in my country are not good enough for me, so they can go search somewhere else"

I swear to God they have the biggest ego in human history

ijustdontcare74 · 2022-05-12T15:37:56+00:00

Thai women tend to be slim, petite, pretty and feminine. Feminist women tend to be fat, lazy, entitled, bitchy, ugly headcases. Why would any man not want a feminist wife with only a 45% chance of a successful marriage vs a thai wife with an 85% success rate?

Personally I’m never getting married again but I can certainly see the appeal in going abroad vs the horrors that are western feminist women.

tharkyllinus · 2022-05-12T16:55:35+00:00

They won't let these men be happy. I don't want you and no one else will have you either. Psychotic stalker mindset.

BDT81 · 2022-05-12T14:30:33+00:00

..if these men are currently not good enough for the women in Sweden why would it matter if they found a wife overseas?

I'm hoping there's an internal logic that they want the men to improve. Kind of like pushing a chain. The women of Sweden thought they were desirable enough to encourage their men and they were wrong. Frankly it sounds like that FemaleDatingStragegy is backfiring.

mcove97 · 2022-05-12T18:26:15+00:00

Hardly news to me. Same things happening in Norway. I think the reason is cause even the average Norwegian men can provide a way higher standard of living and better lifestyle for thai women than they can for the average Norwegian women.

Definitely can't blame men for leaving and finding wives elsewhere though.

I'm someone who don't think I'll be able to find a partner in my own country either due to incompatible values.

WorldController · 2022-05-12T15:22:39+00:00

This reminds me about how radical feminists both have a callous indifference to the incel phenomenon and have no interest in redressing it or helping sexless men acquire dates, and also vehemently oppose porn and insist men stop watching it.

Your example here further demonstrates feminism's extreme hostility to men's sexual fulfillment. These neo-Puritan, sex-negative prudes simply do not want the broad masses of men to have healthy sex lives, for whatever reason.

Can you link to the article you reference, BTW?

Yosef-osef · 2022-05-12T14:22:18+00:00

This is cancer, feminism must be banned because it’s the real cause to every problem in society right now Wdym men are not enough just because they can’t afford to support family, this is not true because Scandinavian countries have great salaries. They just prefer to spend there early 30 getting drunk and fucking while men do the hard work and it’s actually selfish to prevent someone’s marriage just like that.

death_ray_mx · 2022-05-12T16:37:37+00:00

1st world problems

Krouser1522 · 2022-05-12T14:53:17+00:00

Have you seen the women in the west? 😂

casra888 · 2022-05-12T13:48:21+00:00

Haha. I love my Eastern European wife more and more every single day.

Krouser1522 · 2022-05-12T16:21:37+00:00

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ScottdaDM · 2022-05-12T17:35:27+00:00

Hmmmm.

It's a sort of... cognitive dissonance, I think.

They are taught to want masculine things. Feminism had confused masculinity with strength. A feminine woman can be incredibly powerful. But they don't see that. So these women are being bamboozled into adopting masculine traits. But their biology wants a masculine man. Well, masculine attracts feminine and feminine attracts masculine. Been that way for thousands of years. Masculine women aren't going to attract masculine men....the world just isn't that way.

So..men being men...we adapt. We have the drive to go find what we want. The world is much smaller than it used to be.

So these women have two utterly opposite sets of desires competing within them. No wonder they're confused. And it's always easier for humans to blame the outsider. The non tribe people. It's easier than painfully introspecting and having the discipline to change.

But that is the way.

TimtheToolManAsshole · 2022-05-12T16:06:10+00:00

I’ve always assumed that Swedish women were all like 9s & above… as a whole they were much less attractive then I anticipated

NewAccount479909632 · 2022-05-12T15:44:19+00:00

Because they want to control men with sex. If men are less lonely it’s less power for women.

Wildhouse83 · 2022-05-12T16:32:01+00:00

Swedish women are upset because they fear competition and a loss of power. One of a sudden are less and less willing to provide women money, attention etc.

Ther-Sha · 2022-05-12T17:30:46+00:00

It's about politics. Let me explain it.

Assume these women as a supply provider, if you don't like their products (world view, their past or attitude) you would seek another supplier that provides the product you like. When their business booming thanks to the new customers the prior supplier definitely go in inorder to hold their monopoly over the market thus they would do whatever they can to maintain it.

That way they would be the sole choosers of the customer (men) however they like and push whatever they want because the monopoly they held over the supply. Not to mention they would easily put a leash on others through abusing this power of choose.

Remember the clique of decision makers could force whatever they want if they want to.

Ebon13 · 2022-05-12T19:29:40+00:00

Its the same reason women hate MGTOW. Its not about liking the men, its about having access to their resources. Guys go there own way, women get no resources. Guys go to other countries to find women, local women get no resources.

g9i4 · 2022-05-12T22:42:25+00:00

I feel like a lot of the outrage is super condescending. Aren't they publicly saying something along the lines of "They're too economically disadvantaged and submissive to resist their advances" which sounds... very racist.

Caesarsspirit · 2022-05-12T17:45:15+00:00

I want to add that modern feminism(I guess its more seen in developed countries where feminism has gotten more place) made women derail from natural dating behaviour(monogamous, more feminine etc.) and that messed up their relationship with local men. And local men are seeking out women where feminism has gotten less place in society. Like Southeast Asian countries. I heard lots of good stories from Asia but never seen goof stories from West.

-Ivar-TheBoneless · 2022-05-12T19:18:47+00:00

They're pissed because they wanted the men to stay waiting for them. If she fails to find anyone better she was planning on turning to those men to save her, now she's pissed that they didn't play along.

stephenkodampuly666 · 2022-05-12T19:27:39+00:00

Sweden has been importing a lot of people, especially men from Africa & Middle East.

2022-05-12T20:10:19+00:00

>if these men are currently not good enough for the women in Sweden why would it matter if they found a wife overseas?

Because they hate those men and don't want them to be happy.

WillCuckSmith · 2022-05-12T21:25:48+00:00

I found me a potential wife. She's living in Belgium. She's coming to visit me soon, then we'll know if she's moving.

Krouser1522 · 2022-05-12T21:35:07+00:00

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2022-05-12T23:11:50+00:00

Because they want you to be miserable like them

billsull_02842 · 2022-05-12T23:12:14+00:00

if the femcels cant find happiness then they will make themselves happy by making men miserable like them.

2022-05-13T05:10:03+00:00

it's actually all part of the plan. To follow the process of evolution and to vary the gene pool, of course

alexaxl · 2022-05-13T06:15:44+00:00

Self contradictory dramas are baseline for plenty of feminists.

I know quite a many happy females in happy relations with decent men.

But usually they were not “feminists”. Most of them have careers & business ventures & one got a PHD while kid is finishing high school and they don’t see life as a battle of He vs She.

Modern feminist Rejection muscles = zero. Why?

So much of empty fake shallow you go girl! /!queen Bull.

LandscapeClear1630 · 2022-05-12T19:48:20+00:00

Because they still want them AS AN OPTION

in case they can't find anything better by the time they hit the wall.

AyWhatITIS · 2022-05-12T13:23:51+00:00

So I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you but I'm wondering, how exactly has feminism made men unattractive? Like in genuinely curious, I can see why you'd say that for women but I don't get as much for men. Is it because of increasing numbers of betas, or perhaps the fact that men want women to preform traditional roles? Please elaborate

fickle_fuck · 2022-05-12T20:25:37+00:00

There is a guy who is retired in the Philippines and he has made the comment on his YouTube channel several times - Western women are feminists and Filipinas are feminine.

Most women in SEA and South America just want to be stay at home wife’s and live a traditional role.

InformalCriticism · 2022-05-12T20:53:03+00:00

I'd love to see that article, but it's pretty easy to understand. People don't often voice their concerns and act accordingly (edit: *and in this case, women). The complaints they make are expected to be taken care of for them according to feminists. (See G. Thunburg who thinks it's her job to call out the problem of environmentalism, not to solve it).

There is a solipsistic perspective from feminism that doesn't anticipate or want men to solve their own problems. And there's absolutely no part of that moment that is introspective or willing to be critical of their own expectations. None of them would ever admit that feminism caused their problems, or that the reaction of men has anything to do with feminism.

Deckinabox · 2022-05-13T02:14:52+00:00

Dude you're trying to apply logic to a women's life choices, that will never work. Someone who is guided blindly by emotion and "I want ____" doesn't care if their behavior doesn't make sense. If you want one simple reason for the outrage, consider this: the swedish guys will now be financially supporting their Thai women, therefore, less money for native Swedish women. How long the relationships last and what happens to divorced/separated Thai women is also something to look at. Probably most of them don't want to go back and will keep competing locally. Sweden has a small population so this effect is much more considerable than in countries like the USA.

mogaman28 · 2022-05-13T03:27:56+00:00

I'm going to ask the owner of the Chinese convenience store next to my house if she know some relative willing to marry me... 🤣

Sunset_Paradise · 2022-05-13T05:37:56+00:00

I think I've said this before, but there really needs to be a dating site for antifeminists of there isn't already.

jofloberyl · 2022-05-12T19:49:46+00:00

Lol weak men that can't live without a woman. While these swedish woman are perfectly fine living alone. A man would just add on more stressors.

hcandb · 2022-05-12T21:33:37+00:00

There is a whole YouTube channel about it focused primarily for Black men.

Zoom To Thailand - https://www.youtube.com/c/ZoomToThailand

Title	Western Men Going overseas to find a wife.
Author	Krouser1522
Upvotes	315
Comments	148
Date	May 12, 2022 12:41 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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