A lot of men are complaining about the dating market, womens standards, hypergamy etc.
They complain that women have too many options
So doesn’t it seem counterintuitive for younger men to be ok with older men going after the same pool of women they’re attracted too?
If the only attractive age for women is 18-30 in mens perspective. And you have men aged from 18-100 going after this very small pool of women, men are making it even harder for themselves. 18-30 year old men are in competition with men way older then them for the women their age.
Imo. Men aged 18-30 should be shunning men who are older trying to get with the women they are in competition for. But instead. It seems like men have the mindset of, when I’m 30+ I’m going to want to go after those 18-30 year old women too. Which makes sense I guess, but then men have got to stop complaining about womens standards and privileges in the dating market, because most of those privileges are created by mens intense desire for a small pool of women
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I mean that doesn’t stop the men here from shunning women on the things they don’t like
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I’m saying they still complain about it though. I agree it’s not going to change anything. But men don’t complain about this issue I brought up. And I think it’s because of the fact that they focus on when they’re older and the options they want to have once they’re 30+
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I’m wondering when young men don’t bring it up or complain about it like they do everything else regardless if they can change it
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Yea but they could basically limit womens pool to select from if they removed older men from that pool
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I don’t agree with the wall theory. I’m just wondering why young men aren’t complaining about older men trying to get young women. When this makes dating harder for them
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So it is what I thought then. Men don’t want to limit there options once there the old ones. But they’re ok with being limited in their 20s. I get it I guess
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Most people are paired up before 30. And I’m not negative talking about what’s normal. I’m talking about young men complaining about womens options and standards. But young women have lots of options because all ages of men want that small pool of women. Which makes it harder for young men to date. So I’m wondering why men don’t complain about older men making it harder for them. Since they complain about everything else
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People are going to chases whoever they’re attracted to im not negating or doubting that. I’m wondering why young men don’t care about the fact that older men 30+ make it harder for them to date because they’re going after one pool small pool of women
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If men are too busy focusing and chasing women they why are they constantly complaining about womens “high” standards and options. Shouldn’t they just accept it like they do with older men and focus on finding a women they want?
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I mean maybe men can start trying to stop it by complaining about it like they do everything else lol. But I don’t think young men believe it’s a problem
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