First of all I am a grown adult male. Call it what it is. I don't care what I get labeled for my actions. I looked after my own interest and got what I needed. So last night after taking my mother out to dinner I headed out on a late bus on the way home unfortunately the bus could not take me completely there. I asked a male bus driver which bus I should take. He told me there were no more connecting buses from downtown there were buses still running just not connecting buses downtown. Anyhow the driver tries to convince another female driver to allow me to ride to the bus depot. Which is near by a particular street I need to get to. She says no. I'm not getting into trouble of passangers are not normally supposed to ride from the end of the line to the bus depot. The dude bus driver says I do it all the time to call the headquarters. He has no luck with the request. So I take one of the last bus. I get to a bar. I go into the bar and of course there is two bartenders one manly masculine dude and some chick that looks like she can't be older than 30. The woman sees me starts pouring drinks Infront of me. I totally ignore her cause I have this huge hunch if I start talking to this woman I'm not going to get a ride home that I so desperately need. I don't have car. My phone is dead and my debit card has no money on it. So I told the bartender my situation I tell him I will give him cash if he orders me a Uber and I also give him the money including tip for the driver and himself. He does it. I'm happy I'm satisfied and I get home safely. Honestly had I given this request to the female bartender I feel that I would have been left hanging. I had situations where I said to a woman on the street can you help me and I gotten totally rejected when all I wanted was directions to get somewhere. Honestly I totally hate this idea but it's like it just works if I need something I will tell another man what I need not some strange woman who I don't know. Women don't want to hear your problems. They want you to have it together. If you ask or even tell a woman what your needs are you as a man are considered weak incompetent,less than not able to make it in life. When a woman becomes homeless she general is sought after cared for. Just like when a woman gets old feeble minded she goes to a nursing home and is taken care of. When a man becomes old feeble minded he may become homeless or go to a nursing home but he is usually not seen by anyone or visited maybe sometimes. Women totally have a support system. Men usually don't and we have to fight for everything and work for are own ability to exist. I always feel it's on a existence of getting to or having sex with women. Today's modern day woman are told things like I don't need a man.