How does one make a man “fall” ?

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-06-20T10:30:42+00:00

No advice threads

backcourtjester · 2022-06-20T02:40:19+00:00

Hit him right behind the knee or stick a foot out when he’s walking past you

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2022-06-20T03:04:40+00:00

that depends on the man in question, whatever a man says here just describes whatever he finds attractive in a woman, some might tell you have a low n count, others have sex with him on the first date, others will tell you to cook for him, others to show him that you re a "strong and independent" career oriented woman that is okay with a stay at home dad, but ultimately it all depends on whether the man likes that or not so there is no definitive answer, for example, if a man prefers commited relationships and dislikes meaningless sex, he obviously will want a woman who shares the same though, if he meets a woman who has a history of fooling around or dating men of dubious reputation, she is gonna have a hard time making that guy fall for her, no matter what she does, what she offers, it will be hard to change his mind... so it all comes to what kind of woman you are and what kind of man you would like to date, assuming you are realistic on it and the man also knows what he wants and has healthy views about women and relationships.....

For me for example, what makes me fall in love without resistance is when i find the woman precious and worthy of protection, but that's for me.

And those who say "sex" or "be pretty" have no idea what they re talking about, if it was a matter of sex or being pretty men would fall for prostitutes and escorts all the time.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-06-20T02:54:38+00:00

Cute + down to earth personality and not being a hoe. Women are so difficult to date that even lesbians complain about it, so in general just being down to earth and not entitled puts you so far ahead of most women.

theblackbarbieee · 2022-06-20T02:35:06+00:00

All men care about is looks so thats it

SmakeTalk · 2022-06-20T02:55:41+00:00

This is hard to answer in general because everyone's a bit different, but realistically there are just so many men out there that never feel heard or seen that whatever you can do to make him feel understood and welcome will go a really long way.

I hope that makes some sense <3

Fit-Faithlessness149 · 2022-06-20T03:05:07+00:00

Cook a meal, prepare a lunch, add a woman's touch to his home by tidying or organizing.

Steakman1 · 2022-06-20T04:03:40+00:00

By fall do you mean like falling in love? Or is this some slang I don’t understand?

HTML_Novice · 2022-06-20T02:52:06+00:00

I fall for girls on sight, it’s a combo of how pretty they are and how they dress. If they’re super feminine looking + pretty + thin and fit… yeah I’m fallen

Puzzleheaded_Bet7294 · 2022-06-20T02:47:27+00:00

Pretty much just comes down to looks. I’ve lost many a male friend just because they fell for some attractive-looking bimbo. Sad stuff

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-20T02:49:09+00:00

Like your pussy muscles need to be really tight and you should like swallowing. And if you go away after we are done without me having to prompt you several times, I'm all guaranteed to fall for you.

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techr0nin · 2022-06-20T04:30:06+00:00

Women like to say that alot of men objectify women, and there is some truth to that because men objectify everything. So to make a man fall for you, step one is to make yourself valuable from the male perspective. In this case what men find valuable are things like beauty, youth, health, and fertility. Step two is to provide utility, again from the male perspective. So in this case it could be mental, for instance by being feminine which accentuates his masculinity and brings him peace of mind, or it could be physical, so sexual/physical intimacy obviously but also things like cooking/cleaning/running errands and generally making his life easier. The guy will then assess these qualities against his options and choose whether to commit.

But if you are talking about “falling” as in the temporary feeling of “I just have to have this girl”, then it is probably 80% physical/sexual and 20% the male hormonal brain attributing false positive values to a woman. It feels like love, and it might be for a short time, but in the end it’s just transitory brain fog.

growandappear · 2022-06-20T04:45:59+00:00

You get along. Nobody makes anyone do anything, some people are just bound to get along a great deal more than others.

midwesternMD · 2022-06-20T05:48:16+00:00

Eh. Depends on what you mean by “fall.”

The new relationship energy? Just laugh at our jokes, keep going out with us, make out, have sex, etc. Be a normal woman dating a normal man.

Fall in love? That one is tricky. For me, it comes months into the relationship. By then, she’ll have told me a secret desire that I’ve been able to turn into a reality, she’ll have a small damsel in distress moment where I get to feel like her knight in shining armor, and we’ll have slept together a lot. I’ve only fallen in love twice. But both times, I had difficulty sleeping one night and she didn’t. I just looked at her peacefully sleeping while reflecting on our dates and what our future might hold. For some reason, I’d realize I was “in love” as I drifted off into my own slumber. I’m sure others experience is very different from my own. But that’s how it’s worked out for me in my n of 2.

eye_fuck · 2022-06-20T08:16:16+00:00

Cook for him, give him money and bring him hot girl to fuck. It doesn't work repeat until it works

hav1t · 2022-06-20T09:49:15+00:00

Real simple, as a man married for 12 years, and been in the same relationship for 22. Make him feel special and loved. I don't mean fake it, actually make him special and loved.

Don't say what you think he wants to hear, actually engage him in conversations, have an opinion and be rational, without being defensive. Be vulnerable and not manipulative and allow him to be HIM. Not the person you wish you had.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-06-20T10:16:57+00:00

Judging from responses, the men here are fucking unmarry-able cave dwellers.

Looks gets women in the door. Personality seals the deal. If my wife isn't also my best friend, why bother?

Title	How does one make a man “fall” ?
Author	studentoftheworlds
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Comments	27
Date	June 20, 2022 2:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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