If a woman has a high body count, it means she’s experienced a wide range of men. Most likely, many of them were disappointments but many of them were probably not. If a woman has had a high number of partners, then it is almost guaranteed that some of them were hotter than you, smarter than you, better lovers than you, funnier than you, and more successful than you.

I think men find this unacceptable because they know they might not be the “best” a woman has experienced. If she has had hardly any partners, she’s much more likely to think you are amazing because she won’t have much to compare it to. If she’s never driven a Lamborghini, she’s going to think your Ford Focus is pretty rad.

Men say they don’t want a high body count because it means a woman doesn’t respect herself but that is disingenuous. Many men don’t care if a woman respects herself because they themselves don’t respect many women. A woman who has had many partners is more likely to know what she does and doesn’t want.