JustPearlyThings: Emotions and vulnerability

RedPillDetox · 2022-06-28T09:12:54+00:00

Well, apparently she admits that as a woman, she's naturally inclined to be a ruthless social climber without much of an ounce of empathy for men (or anyone really), narcisistic in nature, irrational/overly emotional, almost like a child, whose sole purpose is to subconsciously achieve her power fantasies by fucking top 20% alpha males and living vicariously through these powerful figures. That's what she thinks about herself by actively endorsing TRP. Good for her, i guess.

Anyway, where's the alleged study she cited? I've been vulnerable multiple times with women i like, and nothing much happent. At times i was even praised by it, lmao. I think that yeah, generally speaking showing weakness may not be a good idea in any field of life, but i guess it really depends on the context. Overall, i do think that being a meek and perpectually anxious doormat is unattractive as in comparison to being confident and self-assured, but all this hysterya that your GF is going to leave you just because you cried in front of her a couple of times is absolutely MENTAL. Like, you really need to be out of touch with reality to believe that.

A good way to think rationally and critically about something is to imagine scenarios from a 3rd party perspective. If a woman said she divorced her husband because she saw him cry, what would you think most people would say? Would they say the wife was crazy for divorcing for that reason, or would they say that divorcing a man for crying was to be expected? I think you get the point...

vcreativ · 2022-06-28T09:16:02+00:00

tldr: they're all stupid, right, was that the question. Well that's the answer. They're all dumb. All of them. Please seize to seek wisdom in a toilet bowl.

You will not be able to have an intimate relationship without showing vulnerability. It's not "beneficial", it's a requirement.

And if some people don't like that, then leave. Being alone is much healthier than sticking to the arbitrary rules of an emotional husk.

Honestly, if a group like this laughs at you you must be doing something right.

What most men miss is to mature their emotional side, many many hide it all their life and are then surprised that someone might be turned off when it comes out about as articulate as a raging six year-old. That's not attractive.

What's she supposed to do afterwards, make sweet love to someone that only seems to be an adult but is a kid underneath? Sounds messed up when I put it like that, huh.

So mature emotionally, but the only way you can do that is by showing emotion to yourself and others and be open about it. Just develop yourself at your own pace. Make mistakes, over time they'll become fewer and fewer, and you'll find the right words more and more.

Then you might be able to have a relationship. Neither wanting sex nor having sex is a sign of maturity. And please don't "fake it til you make it". It cannot yield results because it's the equivalent of substituting a bus ride for marathon training.

Ozzyguy300 · 2022-06-28T06:40:47+00:00

I'd be interested to see her "study" regarding women being less attracted for crying men, since I have been in three year relationship and I have cried couple times infront of her and it has just made our relationship stronger

MicahMX700 · 2022-07-02T18:31:03+00:00

Her videos are so stupid have the time I honestly question how humans even made it to space let alone became the dominant species on this planet. I felt my self losing brain cells listening to her.

PapaSanjay · 2022-06-28T04:36:39+00:00

My heart aches

worriedwalt22 · 2022-06-28T04:59:29+00:00

Looks like they also dropped this one just a few hours ago regarding same thing:

https://youtu.be/MvZOktoQwLY

Few of it's comments: https://ibb.co/h87HFfn https://ibb.co/6DcKVvN https://ibb.co/60FdW0j https://ibb.co/zfqHz3n https://ibb.co/hCP4wJ0 https://ibb.co/SBbsJ3Y https://ibb.co/R0wRVVz https://ibb.co/VVnBDdd https://ibb.co/RjCrfHL https://ibb.co/2NphBY1 https://ibb.co/xmKY4MW https://ibb.co/xS5fLmQ https://ibb.co/C9Hm6zF https://ibb.co/2SYZb2Y

carritotaquito · 2022-06-28T17:40:13+00:00

I can't stand this woman. She claims to be red pilled, but she seems more FDS despite she probably bashes them. However, I've seen a few of her videos and she sounds just like the FDS ladies TO A T!!!

n0name1026 · 2022-06-29T12:50:51+00:00

What is your criticism of her perspective? Are her studies peer reviewed with large sample sizes and duplicated?

Shes someone with a platform talking about her preferences and her social circle whilst trying to put a veneer of objectivity on it so that she comes off as something more than what she is: a person giving her opinion.

It is statistically impossible that there won't be at least a few thousand out of a million people who agree with her, but as we know: exceptions don't prove a rule.

PrestigiousTwo5 · 2022-07-23T12:38:21+00:00

Literally a bunch of crybabies in here LOOOOOL

Arose1316 · 2022-07-31T22:17:18+00:00

This woman is so woof.

thepowerelite · 2022-07-01T05:44:49+00:00

Female Choice and Male Stoicism: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/324787001_Female_Choice_and_Male_Stoicism

Title	JustPearlyThings: Emotions and vulnerability
Author	worriedwalt22
Upvotes	9
Comments	33
Date	June 28, 2022 3:37 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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