The most obvious sign of women having the upper hand in dating is how many dudes you see who are completely whipped by women far less attractive than them

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-07-05T18:15:49+00:00

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2022-07-05T17:34:45+00:00

What I see are a lot of men who like to coast through life and see themselves as chill. They are cool with the wife doing the dirty work and being the bitch. As long as he is getting what he wants he is fine with all that. If both people in a couple are easy going then unless they have money where they can farm out the unpleasant stuff then nothing will get done.

The guys coming into OP's place of business are just lazy and passive.

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-07-05T16:40:37+00:00

As someone who also works in that field I would agree it’s usually the women who’s making the complaint, however I’ve seen it unroll and it’s usually the guy complaining like hell to his wife while she tells him to “well go say something then, go speak to the lady” he grumbles a bit about money and then I hear the wife ask “do you want me to do it?” And it’s always answered “would you mind”

The classic tale of letting his wife be the Karen just so he doesn’t look like the bad guy

Financial_Leave4411 · 2022-07-05T17:02:37+00:00

What specific advantage do you think women have that men don’t? If your referring to women rejecting men they’re not interested in as an advantage you should know you as a man can reject women your not interested in as well. Why should a man put up with women like what you described above? Just walk away from those women. I don’t under the problem.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-07-05T16:54:32+00:00

I see that because men in relationships like to stop being adults and just do as they told. They completely stop thinking and just let the wife handle everything. My mother has to tell her husband to make doctors appointments, remind him of everything, she has to do the shopping because he basically refuses to go (and then just complains about what she buys), he complained for 7 years about his job until my mom forced him to get a new one and now he's suddenly very happy with his new employment. It's so exhausting to watch.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-07-05T17:40:39+00:00

Oh no! Women have the upper hand! Quick, retreat to the gyms and basement and attics! Dudes must regroup! Leave the lost causes out there to get laid with the women you find unattractive! Only then can, oh shit, wait. What’s the plan of action? Aren’t dudes asking these girls and happily fucking them? Ok so what is the problem? Ohhhhh, not getting swipes from the girls on Tinder, (like always!).
Yeah, maybe toss the trash app and go say hello to the girl you think is cute it real life.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-07-05T17:35:32+00:00

So in your world if men acted like the trolls and women feared their wrath if their own honey to do lists were not completed all would be good ?

ObviousRascal · 2022-07-05T16:42:25+00:00

I dont think it's a women are obnoxious so much as it is western women are generally obnoxious. I've befriended people from all over the world, from many cultures and nations.

Every single one of those people, both male and especially female, say western women are shitty. Particularly American women. Many of these foreign people are not in traditional gender roles, hell I befriended a woman from Nepal who was having issues with her husband's. Yes, husband's. Plural.

So I don't really think it's a gender issue so much as a cultural issue. If a dude is raised to have zero self respect he won't have any and will let a woman, or anyone, walk all over him. Some men have self respect but don't mind their partners being shits. Some guys are willing to give up their self respect for peace from their wives. Regardless it seems to be cultural not so much gender based if you ask me.

RealAmericanWeasel · 2022-07-05T17:33:57+00:00

I don’t know very many married guys so I can’t say. I do know that I don’t care for customer service people.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-05T17:13:52+00:00

Being a bitch is a choice. You just don't want the burden of wearing the pants and calling the shots. It's a choice men make.

wtknight · 2022-07-05T17:03:56+00:00

I think that this is more a marriage thing and men not wanting to go through divorce. Dating is generally not as disadvantageous for men because, if he can attract one woman , then he can always attract another if he eventually stands up to the first one.

Unique_Suspect8711 · 2022-07-05T17:12:27+00:00

WRONG.

you don’t become a little weak bitch because you’re afraid of losing your girl and not finding another. Also, in this interpretation why would anyone want a relationship, they sound awful.

Weak men father weak men. Lack of secure father figures and feminized schooling system produces men that can’t stand up for themselves ale let women walk over them

2022-07-05T16:50:23+00:00

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toasterchild · 2022-07-05T18:00:52+00:00

Asshole women attract passive guys and asshole guys attract passive women. It's not like it just works one way. I work with couples almost exclusively and it's really common both directions.

Booexgirlfriend · 2022-07-05T18:05:25+00:00

If women did not have an enormous advantage in dating, no man would suffer through this for a chance at affection or companionship

If these men have a bit of self respect, self love, confidence in themselves and not afraid of loneliness they wouldn't suffer through this for a chance at affection or companionship.

If you can't find the woman of your dreams, stay single.

Most of them don't want conflict, which is good. It's not nice when there's a time of war and he's behind her shaking with fear. Because as a couple, we're a team.

That said, I always try to be attended by men, for example.

I don't know what happened to these women, but they are always angry and I don't have time for that, so you're partly right.

Men are known all over the world as "the violent ones", so most of them learn to "stay out of trouble"(?), maybe?

You don't know what's going on at home and what his character is really like.

sarkington · 2022-07-05T17:50:32+00:00

But pussy and service!

NotARussianBot1984 · 2022-07-05T18:07:59+00:00

If a man is that weaked willed then yes dating will be hard for him especially.

But im not weaked willed, never been ruled by a woman, current gf is submissive to me, and dating is still hard.

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