to claim that only one gender has to consent while drunk, and the other one is a rapist. How do you feel about this?

odysseytree · 2022-07-05T08:27:02+00:00

This is actually true. They will only hold the man accountable. This is a very silent rule enforced in colleges. Beware of it even if it's not written.

dw87190 · 2022-07-05T05:12:59+00:00

This bullshit poster is what my high school used during sex ed. This disgusting double standard is in the Australian secondary school curriculum

Reapers-Hound · 2022-07-05T09:25:27+00:00

So each time me and my gf are drunk and she pounces on me to get some I’m some how the bad guy? Fuck that

2022-07-05T09:05:10+00:00

This is kind of a blessing in disguise, because it shows the double standard and will hopefully wake some men up to the misandry.

WizziBot · 2022-07-05T10:29:35+00:00

I was in the post before coming to this subreddit, and i saw a comment saying that this is legally true in several countries and states. So by law, men are second class citizens.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-07-05T05:27:56+00:00

This is why I always tell young men who are headed to college be very very careful when you mix women and alcohol, even if you're both drunk you're going to be seen as the bad guy of the story it's bullshit but it is what it is

buried_alive0 · 2022-07-05T11:08:09+00:00

"Think About it! Be responsible. Because women don't have to."

MisterBowTies · 2022-07-05T12:53:24+00:00

The same people who believe in the wage gap myth believe this is "equality" it even goes further, there are lots of cars of a woman getting a man drunk because the man didn't want to have sex so she needed to "loosen him up" you hear about it being joked about, like the woman is spunky and being creative to get what she wants... but it is rape, plain and simple.

ramao__ · 2022-07-05T12:34:56+00:00

The double standard is bullshit and unfair asf, but it is what happens. We are second class citizens nowadays. So the poster might actually help some men stay alert regarding this. Reject drunk women, only get drunk when out with your boys. Better safe than sorry, with a rape accusation your life will be ruined before you can prove your Innocence.

2022-07-05T17:25:26+00:00

Feminists still use sex as their main/only currency/leverage.

To do this they always have to start with the presumption that men almost always want sex and that women rarely, if ever, want sex.

The problem also comes in by how we define the word "want". I'm a man. The measure of how much I "WANT" something is what I'm willing to do for it. Sure, if a woman (that's not disgusting) offered me sex "I wouldn't say no" but that's wildly different from "wanting" it.

If someone says "Hey, want an ice cream" I wouldn't say no. But when I'm craving/wanting an ice cream, I'll go get it.

They make it seem like men want sex so bad that everything we do, including going to a party with a chick and drinking, is ALL a maneuver (manipulation) to get sex. And of course the woman is always perceived to be completely naive. She's always assumed to have been 'manipulated' and 'tricked' into sex.

SomberDragon00 · 2022-07-05T12:44:34+00:00

Isnt the point of a legal drinking age to put a number to when you are responsible enough to drink, meaning you are also responsible for the decisions you make after drinking?

2022-07-05T11:53:57+00:00

Then Jake didn’t consent either. Which makes them both complicit and the situation becomes a non plus where both parties made bad choices

Ther-Sha · 2022-07-05T13:01:50+00:00

Holy fuck automatically accusing other party as a rapist is a clear prejudice yet they have audacity to talk about law. Un-fucking-believable.

Im-Spreading-for-you · 2022-07-05T09:29:44+00:00

I bet someone would hijack this sensible post by bringing in their illogical arguments

Suddenly_Sisyphus42 · 2022-07-05T12:10:20+00:00

What if it is two men getting drunk and hooking up, or two women? Who is the rapist then?

Jarrett2255434 · 2022-07-05T13:52:53+00:00

Double standards

WorldController · 2022-07-05T17:33:58+00:00

It's obviously bullshit. There are no cogent arguments for why drunk people should not be allowed to have sex with each other.

onslaughtparraballz · 2022-07-05T17:39:25+00:00

u guys arent thinking outside the box. if u change your gender then u get a 1.2 mil settlement and she will be cancelled

Alarming_Draw · 2022-07-05T18:49:30+00:00

Yep-one of the MANY inequalities between men and women that show how full of shit basic feminism is when it pretends to be about "equality".

"women demand equality-until it comes to sports competitions"

"women demand equality-until it comes to domestically abusing men"

"women demand equality-until it comes to drinking alcohol"

etc, etc, etc, etc....

Ebon13 · 2022-07-05T20:02:08+00:00

It's funny. If a woman gets drunk and jumps in a car, the police that pull her over isn't going to say that she wasn't in the right mind to make a choice to drive and escort her home; her ass is going to jail. However, add to equally drunk people, who both say yes, and all the events that have to happen from the party, the trip home, to the bedroom, and the sex and all of a sudden she couldn't possibly have been in the right frame of mind? It's pathetic that they teach this mindset in high school and college.

What really gets me is that if one person can't consent, what's to say that the other person can? If both parties have equal blood alcohol levels, the man would still be blamed. Lastly, what if the woman is the one that proposes sex? It's just another system for women to avoid accountability.

Masked_Rebel · 2022-07-06T01:43:19+00:00

'Women don't have to be responsible, you do. Women aren't rapists, you are. Women need to be cared for emotionally and physically. You don't. Women are smart and capable. You aren't. Women deserve love and attention from the moment they are born to the moment they die. You don't need any at all.'

When is the world gonna wake up and see all the bullshit they've been spewing?

SuperSupremeKai · 2022-07-05T08:33:55+00:00

I believe the poster is showcasing how courts and tribunals work, rather than making a social change or promoting a new idea.

aknabi · 2022-07-05T14:55:04+00:00

Women have agency until they don’t like the consequences of their actions… then they demand that men pay. This is just one of the more serious cases

Brilliant_Writer_136 · 2022-07-05T07:31:44+00:00

Just don't drink or hook up with strangers you barely know and barely like

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2022-07-05T14:08:19+00:00

They want the rights of a man and the responsibilities of a child.
Feminism, equality when convenient.

DouglasMilnes · 2022-07-05T14:34:06+00:00

I think this is a Canadian poster from a few years back which the MRM managed to have taken down. That's not to say it is not a reflection of law in some countries and it is certainly the feminist message globally.

aknabi · 2022-07-05T14:53:44+00:00

This is a JFC raised to the power of WTF

BrokeMacMountain · 2022-07-05T11:35:30+00:00

I would really like to see someone post this on the 2x sub, or aska femninist sub, and gage their reaction.

If anyone here s not already banned from there, can you please post it? many thanks

darkgamera6 · 2022-07-05T10:38:51+00:00

well as much as i hate it
the poster is true

d0d0c0 · 2022-07-05T19:33:11+00:00

I get this. The whole poster is shit. But this isn't what feminism is and stands for?

BDT81 · 2022-07-05T18:11:31+00:00

The fact that they included that "Jake was Drunk" made me think it was a self parody.

Tarzaan69 · 2022-07-05T22:32:08+00:00

That poster is so CLEARLY WRONG its fucked up that someone (a female) passed it as okay.

2022-07-05T22:49:57+00:00

There’s so many issues with this. How do you define drunk? Why is he not the victim if he was drunk too? How do you prove anyone was drunk?

M_Salvatar · 2022-07-06T09:03:49+00:00

Anyone who understands neurology, and alcohol activity on the brain, will tell you that men have a very low tolerance to alcohol compared to women. Which is why it takes one beer for a man to feel the buzz, and completely loose inhibition. This essentially means that drunk man cannot consent...like at all.

But hey, gynocentrism eh?

greyman0425 · 2022-07-07T21:11:03+00:00

This is the best PSA poster a guy can see because it does not hide the truth on how it will go down for a guy.

Guys had better understand that this double standard exists. There too many Karen's and too many fathers with daughters for that double standard to go away.

The best way to avoid this is to not bang drunk chicks, period. By drunk, she had any kind of booze at all.

Best_Illustrator_137 · 2022-07-07T22:38:37+00:00

Something like this actually happened to my fraternity. One of my buds was a player who was messing with multiple girls and one of them got pissed at him and they came forward about him r@ping them, it was honestly scary and we didn’t know what to do, but thankfully a girlfriend of ours told us about a group chat the girls were in that wasn’t like a normal unencrypted one and she showed us, we took pics with our phones and he was cleared cause they all tried to lie on his name, didn’t matter, none of the girls were punished and our fraternity was banned from hosting any events for 2 years and he had to leave the fraternity according to the head bitch who ran the Greek life at our school.

to claim that only one gender has to consent while drunk, and the other one is a rapist. How do you feel about this?

Crosspost "to claim that only one gender has to consent while drunk, and the other one is a rapist. How do you feel about this?" from /r/therewasanattempt:

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