Red and green flags for women

neuro_mancy · 2022-07-19T16:42:55+00:00

I feel like a proper answer to this question would take a lot of thought, but my first impulse would be to dichotomize like it's done with the men's list. I find it interesting that the men's list treats "alpha" and "beta" as two spectra with an attractive pole and an unattractive pole, instead of the usual conception of them being polar opposites on the same spectrum. With women, perhaps the dichotomy would be "madonna/whore" inspired. In other words, sex appeal versus innocence, since both can be turn-ons or turn-offs depending on whether the flags are red or green.

Innocence: (-) childishness/annoyingness/inability to contribute <---------> (+) wholesomeness/joyousness/inspiring of protective instincts

Sex Appeal: (-) trashiness/has baggage/self-involved <----------> (+) sensuality/sexual generosity/aesthetic appeal (both personal style and health markers)

And then you could fill in attributes along those spectra. Maybe that's a good start?

Edit: there's gotta be some way of working in intellect/emotional regulation skills too...

CountTheBees · 2022-07-19T21:34:26+00:00

Check out Sunshine's post on Madonna/Whore red/green flags.

Exstntial-strawberry · 2022-07-19T17:55:46+00:00

You’ll definitely have to be careful with this and take it with a grain of salt but I looked at a ton of the posts on /theredpill and searched for green flags / red flags. Also just reading the books like empowered wife and other reading material mentioned on this sub will give you a good idea.

Idonotpiratesoftware · 2022-07-19T20:54:11+00:00

coming from a male:

she gossips for protection and understanding history of that potential partner? green flag (can turn red quickly)
she gossips to publicly humiliate or shame someone? should have gotten therapy years ago red flag

She chooses to be a better person with small bite size steps to even large leaps? amazing green flag
She has prolonged grief or usually a professional victim mindset/narrative? red flag

Title	Red and green flags for women
Author	becomingthatgirl
Upvotes	38
Comments	21
Date	July 19, 2022 3:06 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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