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“70% of child support debt in the US is owed by parents who make under $10k/year. If you were to design a system to entrap parents in inescapable cycles of debt and punishment, it would be the child support system the way it is currently”| Breaking fathers out of the child-support-to-prison pipeline

lookafist

August 27, 2022
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Title “70% of child support debt in the US is owed by parents who make under $10k/year. If you were to design a system to entrap parents in inescapable cycles of debt and punishment, it would be the child support system the way it is currently”| Breaking fathers out of the child-support-to-prison pipeline
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Date August 27, 2022 2:57 AM UTC
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[–]mikesteane 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link

Perhaps Joe should consider forgiving child support debt instead of university debts.

[–]denisc9918 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Brandon helping men instead of mostly women.

Sadly that's a funny idea.

[–]Double_D_Danielle 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It would be the women receiving the checks for your child support owed so that your debt is at zero.

[–]denisc9918 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just got the Dilbert comic for 27th Aug 2022.

A Conversation between Dilbert and a female co-worker.

  • She says: A new study says drinking water prevents cancer. I was skeptical until I realised that I know a guy who drinks water and does not have cancer.
  • He says: What was your non-Stem major in college?
  • She says: Art History. Why do you ask?

and Brandon is forgiving college debt... LOL

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Child support isn't federal.

[–]duhhhh[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/archive/css/policy-guidance/final-rule-title-iv-d-social-security-act-child-support-enforcement

TL;DR - The states implement it because the feds mandate it and give them kickbacks on collections.

[–]Ciobanesc 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He can't. It is money owed to the state.

[–]mikesteane 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He can.

[+][deleted] -16 points-15 points-14 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Dude. If you have a child. You need to pay for it.

[–]mikesteane 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

While women get benefits to help them if they cannot do so, men get prison (in the US) as is demonstrated by this article.

[–]ForwarddThinkerr 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men can recieve welfare and government assistance too if they have kids. My father did.

[–]Fearless-File-3625 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude. If you took a loan to go to university. You need to pay it.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes.

I have 223,00 left and have paid 120,000.

[–]mee8Ti6Eit 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Right, the child belongs to the man who is paying for it and not the woman who isn't paying for it.

[–]dimentio3996 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m sure the woman is paying for the child as far as needs and wants, isn’t child support supposed to help with that? But it is dumb to put the parent who pays child support in prison. I’m saying parent as I was basically kidnapped by my dad and it made my mom pay child support.

[–]Fearless-File-3625 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude. If you took a loan to go to university. You need to pay it.

[–]Temporary_Spend_3111 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you including boys who were raped as children by adult women who had no chance of getting custody? (as if they would want it)

Hermesmann vs seyer concluded a women is entitled to sue for child support regardless of if conception resulted as a crime committed by the women.

Those boys are forced to pay childsupport as soon as they turn 18 with no real reasonable way to pay it.

Thats likened to forcing a 14 year old girl to have a child after she was raped. Albiet less severe physically but the emotional truama the disdain for the opposite sex the self esteem issues the anxiety and depression. Forcing a child to go through that in the name of children is shockingly cold.

The road to hell is paved in good intentions

[–]ForwarddThinkerr 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

It's better to be able to get rid of all responsibilities and just leave the mother to raise the kid. Men should have this right.

[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

That’s not good for society one bit

[–]Chome_gnompy 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Single moms are bad for society.

So maybe instead of making men pay, we can default to 50/50 custody.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d say single parents in general even.

Kids have the best outcome when they’re raised by two parents who have a happy relationship.

[–]duhhhh[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lower birth rates will hurt in the short term, but would probably benefit in the long term.

[–]ForwarddThinkerr -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes but it's good for men. Society and women don't matter as much.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol what?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The mother raising the child isn’t always the better option for the kid. I would probably be on the streets if my mom raised me.

[–]dimentio3996 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s why abortions should be legal, so both parties don’t suffer.

[–]aerial_coitus 41 points42 points43 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

This is what feminism and progressive western culture wants.

[+]ForwarddThinkerr -18 points-17 points-16 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Men paying for kids and women raising sounds more like conservative cultures.

[–]FeierInMeinHose 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, single mothers are rare and belittled in conservative cultures.

[–]duhhhh[🍰] 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes, but with the men living in the same household. The feminists want the man out of the household too. Neither tradcons nor feminists are good for men. Tradcons are marginally less bad. We need progressives not infected with radfems to promote egalitarianism.

[–]Temporary_Spend_3111 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. Well said duhhhh

[–]KissMyAsthma-99 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's way mote than marginally. Tradcons have 80% RP overlap.

[–]Chome_gnompy -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ding ding ding

Feminism is a low key tradcon movement. They pretend to be progressive, but the reality is, they are nothing more than female chauvanists who have successfully gaslighted western society into believing that advocating for extra rights for women is progressivism.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why

[–]degustibus 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's important is killing more people the world over in prolonged proxy wars. And paying off a small portion of student debt through increased debt on the working class.

[–]Icy_Clench 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Genuine question, why are they making under $10k per year? If you are working full time in a low wage job, you will make more than that.

[–]Outrageous_Fondant12 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I calculate that $10k as only earning minimum wage.

Hell, back in 2013, I was making $42k working two jobs. After taxes and CS, I wasn’t left with much. I struggled to stay afloat.

[–]UGS_1984 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Little offtopic, when Americans speak about 2 Jobs, how many hours per week is that?

[–]Outrageous_Fondant12 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Could be anywhere between 40-80 hrs a week. In my case I was working 40+ hrs M-F and 16 hrs one weekend a month.

[–]UGS_1984 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks. Thats a lot. I cant imagine working 80 hours though...

[–]AgeofAmnesia 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Reddit sides with rape apologists, so I have nothing more to say.

[–]UGS_1984 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Shocking. Thanks for sharing man. How is health now?

[–]AgeofAmnesia 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Reddit sides with rape apologists, so I have nothing more to say.

[–]TracyMorganFreeman 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably in jail.

[–]Revolutionary-Turn-4 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a little late but the fact is its hard to hold down a job when they’re taking every cent from a person and then throwing them in jail which causes someone to lose a job. Its also difficult to find jobs when a driver’s license is suspended…

[–]Ciobanesc 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And a shoutout to the men of California. There is no statute of limitations on child support debt in CA. I vote in CA and would like to see a referendum on the issue. It is insane.

[–]Deekifreeki 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s not just CA. This applies to every state.

[–]Ciobanesc 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That is incorrect. In WA, it is 10 years after the youngest child reaches the age of 18. I researched it because I have skin in the game, so to speak.

[–]PQKN051502 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Meanwhile, be careful with your life, everyone!

[–]mechajutaro 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Articles like this appear each week, and provide us with still further incentive to think more largely than "men's rights" and screeching about how much feminism sucks, if we're serious about selling the public* on our goals. Start connecting our mission to the worries that trouble Americans the most, such as fewer of their/our tax dollars going to the government at the end of year, on account of too many people being in prison and being kept in poverty, which itself leads to disastrous events that also jack up the cost of living for everyone. We can get to men's issues from here

​

*Violently as most contemporary MRAs reject this nation, it's also true.... We're essentially selling a product to the larger public, when we introduce men's issues to them. They ain't going to invest in what we're selling, much less become loyal clients, until we start hammering home to them all the ways that supporting our goals will alleviate their day to day burdens. Since this iteration of The MRM kicked off in the mid-10s, our approach to outside constituents has mostly consisted of us walking up and asking them "What can you for us?", while seldom saying "Here's all the ways we can make your life better". It's not surprising that The MRM has gained so little support among the general public, and that we remain a niche hobby among a handful of folks on social media

[–]TracyMorganFreeman 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So almost all of those 70% are in jail and have no income I presume.

[–]Not12122 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Why arent young people getting married and having kids?"

Because i dont want to be financially raped by my partner to the point where i end up homeless and have my life ruined FUCK THAT

[–]2HourCoffeeBreak 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

100%

The majority of my life has been spent paying child support (1 child), restitution to the state for the benefits her mother received before she let me know I had a child because we were just a casual hookup and went our separate ways. Cobra insurance because my employer at the time didn’t offer it and I was court ordered to provide it. Hospital and doctor copays because I was responsible for the entire bill. “Standard practice.” And then the thousands and thousands spent fighting her in court to actually be able to see my daughter because “child support and visitation don’t go hand in hand.”

I’m in my late 40s and financially I’m where I should have been in my 20s.

[–]djc_tech 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why a vasectomy and no marriage is the solution. I know many say abstain from sex until marriage but honestly marriage is the issue It won’t change so the best thing to do is not play the game. Don’t participate. If you’re an older guy and kin your mid-30s and up just get it done. If you’re young and holding out hope realize you have a 50% shot of being like me and millions upon millions of other men in the US and Europe being a wage slave because the woman you were with decided she wants to ride the dick train and leave you. Then you’re stuck. It seeing your kids and paying 60%of your income to the state.

And the ru don’t care if you can’t or it affects your ability to live or be sustainable- you either find a way Jack or it’s jail

[–]DougDante 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

An appeal for justice for impoverished victims of child support calculation fraud:

“Seventy percent of child support debt in the United States is owed by parents who make less than $10,000 a year..If you were to create a system designed to entrap parents in..debt and punishment, it would be the child support system” @NXSTMediaGroup
https://www.newsnationnow.com/solutions/breaking-fathers-out-of-the-child-support-to-prison-pipeline/

45 CFR § 302.56 - Guidelines for setting child support orders requires "takes into consideration the basic subsistence needs of the noncustodial parent (and at the State's discretion, the custodial parent and children) who has a limited ability to pay" https://law.cornell.edu/cfr/text/45/302.56

Many parents and children are victims of #ChildSupport calculation fraud for the purpose of maximizing federal incentive funds https://www.scribd.com/doc/458394/Michigan-Friend-of-the-Court-Child-Support-Modification-Request

Please @OIGatHHS @HHSOCR @POTUS @GOPHELP @TheJusticeDept @CivilRights it's time to stop funding crime and harassment of impoverished victims of child support calculation fraud and their children, often for the purpose of pocketing "fines" when children get nothing #FathersRights

[–]Bound-Submissive 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They should finally abolish child support or make it a choice for the men.

And they urgently need to grant more rights to the fathers because fathers clearly are made to slaves. And they used to be heads of households.

And they should put restrictions against entitled narcissistic mothers who steal custody for more bucks to gain.

[+]Silly-Activity-6219 -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Child support isn’t the issue. If you father a kid, they are your responsibility.

The only battle going on is the degree of custody. Shared custody should be mandatory unless a parent is shown to be unfit

[–]Agile-Fee-8826 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Child support is a demon of its own. Inability to pay and refusing to pay should be differentiated and under no circumstances should the former case be subject to jail time.

[–]One_Dey -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I don’t understand why anyone would want the state so involved in their lives. I’m a male. I’ve had full custody of my son since he was 3 (he’s 18 now). I didn’t seek child support because I didn’t want the state involved in my life. God knows I coulda used the money at times and god knows his mother deserved to pay!

I don’t know what solution is- but we ALL need to be better and stop leaning on the state in these situations because the state will be happy to get their cut.

The way I see it- woman are vindictive and collect child support more for revenge than support for the child. The state is all too willing to oblige because they get a cut and if they get enough cuts- well that’s a pretty penny.

Beyond that- child support is an antiquated ’solution’ to problem that no longer exists.

Govt never has and certainly still doesn’t- understand the sexes. That is self evident.

I’m poor- I’m from a poor background and have poor friends. Every single male I know wants to be involved in their kids lives and are willing to pay for their needs. Idk I’m just ranting. Just be better- people!

[–]Double_D_Danielle 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

How does the state get a chunk?

[–]WestSnail 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The state gets a monthly or yearly administrative fee and collects on any interest that sits in the account.

[–]Double_D_Danielle 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously?? If the state is truly charging interest then that’s fucked up

[–]One_Dey 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Idk man. I just did quick search but couldn’t find anything- but I swear in the past I’ve read that they take a small percentage. I could be wrong and don’t feel like searching for it.

[–]Double_D_Danielle 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I work in accounting and deal with payroll/child support deductions. The amounts deducted go straight to the beneficiaries.

[–]One_Dey 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gotcha. Nevertheless we shouldn’t be allowing the state in our lives on such a personal level. It’s a microcosm of a larger issue. Like I said- I don’t have any solutions but the state is most certainly all-too-willing to pry and we shouldn’t let them.

[–]Deekifreeki 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just a side note: the state does not HAVE to get involved if both parents agree on CS and don’t want the state involved. However, at least in my state if the receiving parent wants the state involved (collect the CS on their behalf) they can and they do take some small fee (although that small fee obviously adds up when you’re collecting millions a week). Also, if the parent receives state assistance for the child the state WILL be involved.

[–]SeaofSpaceMonster -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feels like a never ending list of penalties solely for having reproductive organs. Whether or not they work. Forced birth, artificial supply issues on formula and diapers, your job can straight up penalize you for having kids, periods cost monthly, actual rape & false accusations, malicious paternity cases, it just goes on

[–]redditer1123212 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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