After following this and other men's health subreddits for years, I see that we are missing an important aspect in most of our posts.

Responsible men make the world a better place. The opposite is true too, irresponsible men cause global famine, wars, and oppression.

IF YOU FEEL TRAPPED, MISUSED, ABUSED, OR WANT TO DIE, get help now!!!

Find a good mental health provider, trusted friend, or a quality mentor. Start acting as if you are responsible for your own life. Pay attention to what you are doing, and look back and evaluate your past.

Ask the hard questions of: What worked? Why? What didn't work? Why? Does this new choice hurt my long term goals or help?

Please stop putting your futures in the hands of an incompetent society and a partner that has been taught that they are a prize instead of a being part of a team.