Before I go one I just want to say that I think sex should be seen as exclusively romantic by culture and that culture shouldn't seperate sex from love as it's doing now. I feel like sex positive women are a threat to this culture I grew up with and make a me feel like people like me are dinosaurs. From my interaction with sex positive people they don't seem to care and just pitty us. They were toxic and rude and often forget there is another human being on the other side of the screen with emotions, trauma, and pain. Instead of empathizing or understanding us they invalidate our fears as paranoia or crazy. Fears don't come from now where they come from our interaction and observations on the real world. Sure they can be wrong but trying to understand why we are wrong and helping us understand the correct answer will help both of us instead of belittling us. I just wanted to get my thoughts out since it's been causing me stress.

Don't get me wrong I am up for feminism and women liberation I just don't think women need casual sex to be happy or liberated. I don't want men and women divided or having sex like jaguars but rather united and bonded like wolf pack.