Q4W: Are you closed to fwb, casual sex, and situationship? If so why?

EulenWatcher · 2022-10-06T06:21:20+00:00

Sure. My husband and I are monogamous and exclusive. Plus I've figured out pretty early that I need to feel secure about a person to be intimate with them and I'm pretty squeamish, so the idea of having sex with someone I'm not exclusive with is rather disgusting. Also sex is risky. I'm not taking the risks with bad partner who doesn't want to have future with me.

EviessVeralan · 2022-10-06T15:27:59+00:00

I knew from a young age i wanted to get married so i spent my time doing things to make this happen. Casual sex would have been a waste of my time.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-10-06T07:09:45+00:00

Yes I know a lot of women who do not like casual sex and only have sex in relationships

When you feel like you have met someone that makes you feel like no one else has, that makes you want to be a better person to make them proud, it’s love, it’s the way you can do the most boring thing but it’s fun as they are there, that even when you are angry at them you still want them to be happy

lizzstomania · 2022-10-06T23:46:58+00:00

closed to all of the above because I don’t want to be that intimate with someone who I’m not in love with/who loves me. I don’t see the point in having sex just to have sex. I don’t want to feel like my body is worth sex but my personality is not worth dating. + I don’t want diseases from someone just for sex without love.

2022-10-07T03:16:43+00:00

I've always been too goal oriented for anything like FWB. I've broken up with a guy I liked when it became obvious (to both of us) that our relationship had no future. To me, the point of dating was always to find my life partner.

And I worried about hormones from sex clouding my judgement.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-10-06T06:31:06+00:00

I am not closed to the idea as I am married

I did have a fwb on and off for 15 years

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-10-06T09:22:49+00:00

note: male

yes i think sex is something intimate for me not something i'd do with just about anybody at least not for my age

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-10-06T13:38:05+00:00

I was in something like situationship with a guy just few months ago.I was using it as opportunity just to meet or be close to him because I had crush on him.

Was there any hope for this turning into something else?Yes but I wasn't expecting something.Then later found out,he asked out another girl so I stopped lol.

Best_Illustrator_137 · 2022-10-06T14:55:00+00:00

I’m okay if it’s fwb but if we’re in a monogamous relationship that sh*t shouldn’t even be a question.

Title	Q4W: Are you closed to fwb, casual sex, and situationship? If so why?
Author	roseonyxa
Upvotes	5
Comments	34
Date	October 6, 2022 6:05 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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