q4w: What does the 28+ y.o. single you bring to the table better than the 18-27 y.o. single you?

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2022-10-01T10:14:15+00:00

Lol what kind of question is this. I’m not single but when I was dating at 25 vs 18 there were huge difference

18 I was still partying. I was in a ltr but we fought a lot and I nagged a lot. Won’t go into the shit he did but it was 100% a two way street. I was more interested in partying or having fun then. Also hadn’t gone to uni yet so had no career prospects.

At 25 I finished school, and was long done with partying. I had traveled 4 countries by this point, and also learned about weight lifting and body sculpting best shape I was ever in was at 25. 18 I was too skinny partly from all the partying. In my relationship now we haven’t had a fight ever (we’ve disagreed and annoyed eachother but not taught as we communicate well and have a lot of respect for eachother)

I’m a much better partner and way more supportive than I would have been capable of in my younger years because I couldn’t even support myself back then let alone another person of they went through something like loss of job, or depression. Younger me would not have been half the mother I am today.

So all in all yea I think I was a better potential partner when I met my partner at 25 vs if we had met when I was younger

shreyastalpade · 2022-10-01T04:20:42+00:00

this question is for girls who are actually looking to meet

Women aren't looking to meet men, men are looking to meet women.

greedyleopard42 · 2022-10-01T20:29:20+00:00

i’m nowhere near that age yet, but i’m sure with age i’ll have learned much more about the world and be able to carry a better conversation. i’ll have more stories to tell and be a more complete person. maybe more confident in my abilities, and my skills at art music and language will be better. i don’t think my attractiveness is going to suddenly go down at 28 either- that’s really still super young and as long as you don’t treat your body terribly you can look good for many years after.

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-10-01T00:46:59+00:00

I am not looking for man but I would say this.

Would the younger you be more appealing to the man of your dreams or the older you would be more appealing in your opinion?

So you really think 27 + can win against 18-27? 50 years old man would chose 24 years old single mom rather 45 years old woman even if she is childless.

Of course,Younger me would be appealing as you can give him kids easily if he want and youth is valuable thing you give to man so what the hell older me would give him.No man likes lose body with full of wrinkles and aged face.Also falling for 18-27 yo is more easier than 27+yo.We are not like men who get better with age,we just turn into useless creature dealing with broken body and other issues.I literally gave up gym after watching men getting better ,build muscles or whatever shit they do and my body keep getting lose so it kinds of like heartbreaking lol.

I can be crazy or get envy very easily which I don't think is attractive trait.I was little bit more calm in my young age.I have hearing loss so it would be annoying to ask to repeat what they said.I am sure my ex was annoyed by it.

In old age,how can body be youthful? As someone who is in aging phase, literally body is becoming bad even though I exercise,move,eat healthy and don't do anything bad to it.There is nothing you can do to stop it unless you get surgery.All of this is impossible if you gave birth to kids

The question is what does the older you bring to the table on a date that a younger version of you couldnt?

To be honest, nothing lol.All I think I will give him is bill amount.Even if I did bring something,I don't think man will fall for me and another woman will get him.

kokorwqac · 2022-10-01T00:29:16+00:00

No women thinks they get better with age we all know most men are borderline pedo

Getting better with aging is mostly some redpill men coping, rarely women

2022-10-01T00:48:35+00:00

Baggage: trauma, jaded misconceptions, and being testy.

SolidPuzzleheaded984 · 2022-10-03T04:10:48+00:00

Younger women are WAY less jaded.

EulenWatcher · 2022-10-05T00:50:04+00:00

Can't talk exactly about the given timeframes, but overall I'd say with age and experience in dating I got much better communication skills, got more attentive, mature, composed etc. All in all compared to 18 y.o. myself now I'm an adult, not a kid. There's no much difference between being 23 and 24 though. The key is in experience, not just age.

Title	q4w: What does the 28+ y.o. single you bring to the table better than the 18-27 y.o. single you?
Author	_Duriel_1000_
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Comments	59
Date	October 1, 2022 12:23 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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