how to get over approach anxiety for blackpillers?

MegaGigaTeraBased · 2022-11-22T04:37:09+00:00

you don't, unless you have some kind of humiliation fetish

RatDontPanic · 2022-11-22T01:09:54+00:00

Don't do it. Online dating is shit but it's better than real life, trust me. I met my wife from an online site and she approached me first.

FortniteAbobus · 2022-12-09T01:31:24+00:00

Only if you wanna insult girl with "You are my looksmatch" behavior.

BoogersAndSugar · 2022-12-09T14:43:50+00:00

Get your looks maxxed out first, then let THEM approach YOU. That's the safest strategy in today's times. Spam approaching women as an ugly dude is not only ineffective, but dangerous. More than once, I've seen women I know personally falsely accuse guys of sexual misconduct just because they didn't find them physically attractive. And they outright admitted to me it was all lies. They simply found the guy unattractive and wanted to punish him for that!

debatelord_1 · 2022-11-21T20:37:50+00:00

Approaching women as a khv seems so weird and pointless to me. Like, even if she says yes I'd have no idea what to do with her.

HateSpeechFanBoy · 2022-11-21T20:40:50+00:00

If you are ugly, blackpilled and want some type revenge you should approach to make females uncomfortable

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-11-21T21:41:47+00:00

Do not approach. Cold approach is shit, and this is coming from someone who does it for a living.

platinirisms · 2022-11-21T17:22:07+00:00

Go gym, get fit, eat healthy, get a nice haircut, once you got some muscle buy fitted high quality clothes that show the shape of your body, grow a beard if you can and groom it weekly or bi-weekly, replace glasses with contact lenses, etc.

In the meantime, approach women, nothing will get rid of approach anxiety more than actually facing the fear head on and approaching women.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-11-22T21:06:14+00:00

approach anxiety

"On the other side of fear; is success." ~ Dr. Eric Thomas

The pivotal factor is fear. Face it head on. How? You can go all in, approach 100 women in 100 days. Become a blunt force of approaching. Until you're immune to rejection. Or go slow. Join a social knitting group. Talk to old grandma's, and milf's. Then work your way up to a cross-fit gym. Talking to baddies.

The key is to make a plan. That will work for you. Then execute.

Godspeed and good luck!

tired_hillbilly · 2022-11-22T01:16:38+00:00

Get a wingman. Even if they're just as awkward as you, it will help, even if just by giving you the shove you need to say something.

Secret-Ad8479 · 2022-11-22T05:15:27+00:00

You don't. It's absolutely absurd hat you even consider approaching women knowing what we know about them. If you were truly blackpilled you would not be making this post.

Title	how to get over approach anxiety for blackpillers?
Author	no_bling_just_ding
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Comments	25
Date	November 21, 2022 5:09 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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