Men in their 20s and 30s: How often do you have sex with your wife? What’s the quality of that sex?

There’s a great metaphor about the fridge here in the subreddit. It got me thinking how often do you guys want it and how often do you actually get it from your wife? I’m a bad example, but I get it about once a week, and she barely shows any enthusiasm, to her it’s mostly an “obligation”. When I suggest it I get rejected 100% of the time. In 3 years, not once she accepted my proposal to have sex. I’m in my early 30s and she’s in her late 20s. Both in good health. I have a very high sex drive, while she claims that her sex drive is much lower and she has to “get in the mood” for hours before sex with me every time.