I'm so used of wearing jeans- how do I transition to wearing pants?

buni223 · 2023-01-30T19:03:39+00:00

how do I transition to wearing pants

You…put on a pair of pants. Go to the mall, try on different pants, and buy the one pair that fits your criteria. Also jeans aren’t masculine or immature tbh. If you have a nice body and good fashion sense, you can style “up” jeans.

frog_air896 · 2023-01-30T19:11:09+00:00

I think i'm not the most apt to answer this, but i believe that jeans do suit women, especially women with a nice body, i don't see it as something masculine or immature at all

sunglasses90 · 2023-01-30T20:34:56+00:00

Personally, I believe my “sexiest” look is a pair of good fitting jeans and just a bra. My fiancé would probably tell you he prefers me naked to any clothing whatsoever. But something about being a skinny woman in jeans and a bra feels like a Victoria secret model. Jeans can be sexy if you have a nice shape and they fit you well.

I hate real pants. I’d go with a skirt or dress before a “dress slack”. They’re more comfortable to me and looks nicer.

As for the UTI’s I used to get them chronically and haven’t had one in 10 years. Here’s what worked for me. 1. Cotton underwear. None of those cheap polyester ones. 100% cotton. Not super sexy, but cotton is breathable. Save the sexy ones for sexy time 2. Wipe front to back NO EXCEPTIONS. As a child I didn’t learn this. Practically saved my life once I finally implemented it. 3. Cranberry supplements of 25,000 mg. As far as I’ve tested you can’t overdose on cranberry bills. Stores sell anywhere from 250-25,000 mg. Buy the highest dose and don’t be afraid to take a few at a time at the very first tinge down there. The sooner you get it in your system the better

Leg_Mcmuffin · 2023-01-30T20:11:49+00:00

You put them on like anyone else - one leg at a time.

Anonymous_fiend · 2023-01-30T19:39:17+00:00

Jeans can be feminine depending on their cut and style. Also how you dress them up. If you wear jeans just make sure to add some accessories and/or a more feminine blouse.

I'm more of a fan of skirts and dresses vs pants. But when I did wear pants flowy linen boho type ones I liked.

Look at some pintrest or Instagram fashion boards. There's plenty of flattering plus size trousers that are more modern and trendy. Once you get an idea of what you're looking for try a lot on.

Embarrassed_Cup2524 · 2023-01-30T22:19:50+00:00

i like butter soft black leggings and dress it up with a long top and some cute socks

AutoModerator · 2023-01-30T18:52:15+00:00

Title: I'm so used of wearing jeans- how do I transition to wearing pants?

Full text: I know jeans aren't super feminine-- but they're the only things that make me feel like I'm wearing 'real pants', as opposed to- real pants (snicker)- that feel more like leggings or yoga pants to me. Why is it that pants tend to make me feel like I'm wearing leggings or yoga pants? I must be wearing the wrong pants. What I *don't* like about jeans is that they're not super feminine, they're kind of teen-y and unoriginal and not to mention doesn't really let your nethers breathe, which is why I had always expected to transition out of them. I've been on a jeans kick only because I've been shopping consignment shops where they're pickier with what they'll take in, so I've been able to get higher quality jeans for the first time in my life, so I told myself this will do for now, until I feel I've reached the chapter where I'm ready to upgrade. Well, I have started to feel a bit insecure about my jeans usage, and on top of that, I think that me wearing ill-fitting jeans (due to me washing them in hot water, I know I know, I already plan to transition to cold) has been possibly the #1 top contributor to my chronic UTIs. I know I want to wear skirts more, but right now it's winter so it's less of a priority and only having a couple for the house, if any, makes sense right now, and then the rest I need to invest in would be pants. Oh, what is the difference between slacks, pants, and any other terms used for... bottoms? Trousers I think I sort of get, they're more like "pantsy* pants right, if that makes sense? So, I like the idea of trousers, but I also know people in the UK use that term more and with me being in the US I worry about anything I see labelled "trousers" being actually trousers or not. I'm 25F, how do I go about finding actual adult pants to wear out every day, not leggings or yoga pants, but actual PANTS that are feminine, breathable, stylish enough to be the best dressed in most rooms like on the border of business casual and formal, or on the border of casual and business casual, something that will make me feel like a WOMAN, but be COMFORTABLE enough that I'm not unnecessarily making myself uncomfortable with all of these nooks and crannies to tie and hold myself in? I should mention, I am a plus sized lady. I know working on my weight will be mentioned, so I just wanna chime in first and say I've been hitting the gym.

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cleanmindhappymind · 2023-01-31T01:42:20+00:00

I think you're looking for pants with minimal waist elastic and a stiff button closure. I got a pair from uniqlo.

Some types of jeans are much looser and even soft in the material - better for the nether regions - but still a stiff waist to give you the "pants" feeling. I recommend mom jeans from Levis.

Remember your top, hair, and accessories can make anything feel more feminine!

Knot-Tying-Magician · 2023-01-31T02:39:30+00:00

Ok, just happened upon this post. Have you tried Prana pants? They are made for rock climbing so they are extremely flexible and comfortable but they are also made to go out on the town with them. Amazing pants!

breemakin · 2023-01-31T11:19:13+00:00

I feel the same for some reason. I own a black pair of jeans and a lighter wash pair of blue jeans. They’re both Levi 501s (I think) which I find to be flattering on my body shape. (I also have “work jeans” which are basically so I have a chance at life if I step on a brown snake lmao).

If I’m wearing jeans I always seem to wear a super frilly, feminine top to compensate or I don’t feel like myself. I’m also not super feminine by any means (life/personality-wise as I pretty much run our hobby farm on my own and am always covered in some kind of excrement/afterbirth).

I much prefer skirts with boots if I’m going out out in winter. I only begrudgingly wear jeans if I’m going to a sports event for my local town as it’s just more practical wrangling kids in the mud or running around handing out tickets.

I live in Australia so in summer it’s always sundresses and gumboots (I’m a fashion icon) and never jeans (unless I’m stomping through paddocks).

malazanbettas · 2023-01-31T17:51:23+00:00

I really love slim tailored trousers with a slightly higher hem and kitten heels.

PetyaDuncheva · 2023-02-01T01:06:36+00:00

I'd say you transition straight to dresses and skirts (like I did).

Some years ago I went through some serious depressive episode in my life, so much so that I actually started going to therapy (which was widely unpopular in my country back then and maybe still is). I was wearing skinny jeans, classical vans and body fitting tees - I thought I was sexy and feminine.

My therapist suggested I change my appearance drastically and start dressing feminine. "What do you mean? Am quite feminine, all my clothes accentuate my feminine body shape?"

Well, dresses are special, you see? They make you feel really fem, really chick and cute and all dressed up and pampered compared to jeans and tees. Even simple dresses.

So I've been wearing only dresses and skirts for the past 6-7 years and it's soooo much comfortable actually and effortless even - a dress is a whole outfit on its own - you put it on and you are done, no need to match it with other stuff, maybe just a belt, but no need. And you can wear it with classical converse shoes (I like red, for instance, white are cute, too) or whatever unpretentious canvas shoes you have on hand. And if you feel fancy - just swap the canvas shoes with sandals and instantly you'll look somewhat more made up.

I threw away my last pair of jeans some years ago and am never going back. Jeans are awesome, don't get me wrong, it's just that I don't feel so good in them anymore.

lklklkljnxnxnsn · 2023-02-02T18:01:50+00:00

You don't state exactly how you want to dress. You talk about 'real pants' and 'pantsy pants' and I am having trouble understanding what you mean exactly. What exactly constitutes as 'real pants'?

To answer your question women's clothing is generally cut and designed differently to men's. Even a pair of female sweatpants and matching sweat top is most likely going to look feminine because of the way it is cut and the smaller details. It's going to emphasise and flatter the fact that you are a woman.

I do know that i have tried men's sweaters when i have been pregnant and not many clothes fit me (I'm already a women's size 44-46 or size L/XL and live in europe) and it can be hard to find a shirt long enough in pregnancy and men's clothes almost always look and fit wrong somehow, like I'm playing dress up in a man's clothes. Even the most basic thing will often have a small detail that looks masculine and just throws the whole piece off when I see myself wearing it.

The implication of your query implies that perhaps you want to look more sophisticated and less casual, not necessarily more feminine.

I would suggest finding a fashion YouTuber with a body type similar to yours and a style you like and go from there.

I also want to note that when we try to wear things that are out of our comfort zone at first we are often self conscious in it. Unless it looks indecent and you have people staring at you in a weird way then chances are it looks fine. You likely don't look wrong in these pants at all. Not unless they are showing your underwear off to the world or you have a fupa or something and they cling to it really tightly and make it look like a butt, or you can see cellulite through the pants. If you are plus size you need pants that hide cellulite, are high waisted and skim over your stomach as much as possible. Some slight emphasis on a fat stomach isn't always avoidable and this shouldn't discourage you from wearing nice clothes while you are at this size.

Title	I'm so used of wearing jeans- how do I transition to wearing pants?
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Date	January 30, 2023 6:52 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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