The bad news first. Sorry but 80% of you men out there will not hook up with /marry a super beautiful woman. Perish the thought, y'all are going to get with Becky Average who may or may not be overweight. You gotta accept that because it's the law of raw statistics. 80% of men just ain't gonna get with the top 20% of women, and an Instagram babe is just a hard no.

Fact is, you're going to have to abandon those supermodel girlfriend dreams and get with reality. Your best bet is to hope for a Becky Average who is a woman of good character, and your best chance of finding her is to vet the women you talk to or date. Choose poorly and you will find crushing loneliness to be a refuge from the kind of hellish relationship you could wind up in. Just ask Johnny Depp or the protagonist from Gone Girl (wait did I just say the same thing twice?).

The good news? Proper vetting might land you a date/relationship with a good woman. Women do date short and ugly dudes. Only by making sure you found a woman of good moral character and who have interests similar to yours will you reduce the odds of her losing attraction to you later.

tl;dir: Set realistic expectations. Focus on something besides her looks. Avoid superficial women!