If you type “toxic femininity“ into google, the first site that shows up states:

”Toxic femininity is a broad term that refers to a rigid and repressive definition of womanhood, including pressures women face to restrict themselves to stereotypically feminine traits and characteristics. Examples of traits that are traditionally associated with femininity include empathy, sensitivity, gentleness, and gracefulness.”

These people see empathy in women as a weakness. They want to encourage women to be unempathetic and insensitive, and see these as virtues. Feminism is not a “toxic” ideology; it is an evil ideology, plain and simple.