Do people here understand how preselection works?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-15T08:32:01+00:00

You are talking about positive reinforcement which allows good looking people to develop better, more confident personalities. I agree that this does appear to happen.

Gr4nd45 · 2023-06-15T08:41:35+00:00

Wrong.

1) Popular boys are popular because they are charismatic, confident, and assertive. It has nothing to do with female validation.

2) Insisting that men need women's validation to be confident is exactly what's wrong with young guys today.

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quadzillax · 2023-06-15T08:12:32+00:00

Please don’t use the term hot boys

Few-Laugh-6508 · 2023-06-15T12:09:56+00:00

Holy shit! "Grown women are singling 12 year old out as hot"?! I have sons this age and just threw up in my mouth a little bit. Grown women looking at a CHILD as "hot" are called preditors.

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2023-06-15T14:53:02+00:00

Facts. Confidence via positive reinforcement cannot be replicated. Unless you live in delusion.

Especially when multiple women reject you and your tall white friend has women literally pulling him into the bedroom. It's honestly impossible to maintain that delusion.

After 1 year of looks maxxing and women actually start approaching me. The confidence just come effortlessly.

Safinated · 2023-06-15T14:56:46+00:00

Yes, it’s a less sissy way of saying “get a social life”

KayRay1994 · 2023-06-15T16:57:28+00:00

there is 100% an external role that makes things easier - that being said, if you didn’t get that growing up, so be it - that’s life - again, be responsible for your own happiness. Life ain’t fair.

A certain level of confidence can come from within - however, in order to get that confidence you need to learn how to make yourself happy and truly believe in yourself - that usually comes through intense self discovery, solving your inner trauma, working on a look that feels right for you (ie. if you have a thicker body type, lift more, if you have a leaner body type, go for a leaner look - as a quick example) - learn how to be comfortable with yourself and love yourself, and that’s when you’ll truly learn how to become confident if you’ve never had that before.

JNRoberts42 · 2023-06-15T10:26:25+00:00

They exist and enjoy life because they’ve been interacting with and hanging out with women since they were kids. They never spent time observing as an outsider or trying to reverse engineer women like some fucked up sci-fi premise.

One of these days a beautiful woman is going to notice a nervous, twitchy guy staring at her from afar, screwing up his courage to approach. She’ll grow bored of the scrutiny, say Boo! And he’ll run home to hide forever, retreating deep into the bowels of TRP (and it’s all bowels, bowels all the way down) and spend the rest of his days and nights screeching about hating women because they aren’t worth his time.

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