Let me start off this essay by stating a few basic concepts that the entire guide will be based on.

1. Women are selfish

Women are the impressive culmination of evolutionary engineering to giveway an organism that uses emotional and sometimes sexual manipulation in getting the most outside of the environment, including the opposite sex and even sometimes outside of each other. Most men fall for the façade of women being this innocent sexy and beautiful beings that can be trusted with their life savings and unfortunately forget the fact that women are unconsciously always thinking about exploiting men to maximise their gains and dominance. For men we actually have to sit down and learn how to do these things, with women, they're born with it.

2. Western women, especially late 20s onwards, are emotionally more vulnerable and carry emotional baggage and traumas from the past.

This goes without saying that by the time their cock carousel has come to an end and women start hitting a wall, they realize that their value in the grand scheme of things is worthless and is decreasing and therefore they start putting more efforts into catering to a relationship with a man the best way they know how. This gives rise to a more fragile woman who's desperate for a man to lean on and feel secured with.

3. Women are emotional beings. They let their emotions determine their reality.

This has been said so many times before, but the gist of it is that if a woman feels a certain way, there's no way in hell you're able to change that feeling, as stupid and fucking irritating that feeling is. The new shaped reality, thanks to this, in her mind is the everlasting reality that started before she was born and extended until that moment.

4. Social media and soon AI will make humans almost unable to communicate properly

Thanks to social media and living in the virtual, we don't get to socialize with each other as much as we did. Some of us do still go out and have functional social circles, but compare people 30-40 years ago and how much they had to socialize to today. Today we're much more reliant on getting shit done online and therefore our social skills aren't something that come with us. We actually have to train them. The baseline of communication is way too low, it's insane.

People nowadays are un-fucking-able to communicate 2 thoughts consecutively. It's not even about the new Gen Z slang, it's more about finding words to express exactly what you want and how you want it.

The Guide

Okay with that out of the way, we can start talking about the actual manipulation.

This guide is a fine line between turning yourself into a simp and an emotional pillow or someone who can effectively manage girls' emotions for them then use them against them. The main point about this guide is to first let them feel comfortable around you.

Make her comfortable

You can easily accomplish this by striking up a somewhat small deep talk. The context for this can be something casual, like a walk in the park, doing an activity together, having dinner, whatever.

Remember how I mentioned that girls are selfish? You can use that against them. Make her talk about herself. Listen to what she says carefully and then throw together questions on details that she mentions. If she says she studied fashion in London, great, now you have 2 elements to work with.
Just keep asking questions about the different topics that she brings up, and if she asks you back, feel free to give a somewhat vague and short answer then it's about her again.

During the small talk

Now, this is important: during this small talk, you need to ask and make assumptions about what drives her. Talk about her motivation and aspirations, dreams and passions. For example, she said she likes fashion, oh, you must be the creative kind. Do you like coming up with stuff from scratch? Oh London, you must be quite the adventurous type.

This will show that you're not only hearing what she's saying, but actually listening and admiring what she says, and you're also looking under the hood, genuinely trying to understand who she is and what she likes and wants to do.

This is the most critical point in the guide. Establishing comfort is essential. You sow the seeds of that feeling which will later determine her reality. That feeling she's comfortable with you, and if she is comfortable with you, then it doesn't matter that she only knew you for 1 hour. Oh she'll spill the beans and some more like you've known her for years. It's crazy (refer to point 3.).

Keep the conversation playful and light-hearted, keep going on random tangents, make it dynamic and grabbing, make it about passions, dreams, about her, her past, her future...etc. don't forget to kino.

Getting cozy

Great now she's comfortable and you guys are getting cozy, time to take her somewhere where you preferably sit right next to each other. This is important. And hopefully you've been paying attention and took some mental notes, at some point, she'll definitely have brought something traumatic up (they always do lol remember, she's desperate for emotional maintenance), could be literally anything, and in the course of the conversation, 2-3 hours in, you can nonchalantly ask her if she's comfortable talking more about what it's like to [insert trauma].

Discussing her trauma

Recognise that it's not an easy subject and if she's uncomfortable speaking about it, you can skip, but you're really curious and want to understand her better. Don't force it, don't make it obvious that you're going for her throat, she'll be inclined to speak about it anyways, all you have to do is casually trigger that chain of emotions/thoughts.

Refer to point 4. At this point, communication starts failing. You notice how bad of a communicator she is, she's unable to express her emotions intelligently, and she struggles to find words to describe what she wants to say.

Help her. Reformulate what she says, complete her sentences, help her see a clearer picture of what happened, inquire about other stuff.

That's it. 9/10, She'll spill the beans. I had girls telling me about their daddy issues, about how they didn't find a higher purpose, others about their divorce, abandonment traumas, accidents, deaths of relatives, how stressful life is, I had a girl once even telling me that she was fucking groomed when she was a kid. All kind of fucked up shit... On the first date.

At this point, they get REALLY emotional, and some of them might start crying, THIS IS GREAT. You got her on the chokehold, and this is the best timing to ramp up your kino. And unironically, women are the wettest at this stage.

Handling the trauma

It's really weird. For men, we wouldn't tell anyone we just met about the traumas and struggles that we have because wtf I barely fucking know you. But for women it's really astonishing how easy it is for them to just openly speak about their abuse with a total stranger.

Anyways. Back to the guide. So now you got a girl who's just opened up, and is feeling fragile and vulnerable, on the first fucking date, you ramped your kino game and probably you have your arm around her, maybe you even have a boner, but you're only getting started.

Once she's opened up about her trauma, you need to empathize with her and you need to show her that you care. She's not looking for a solution, just tell her that you're sorry she had to go through that, ask her things about her past, tell her to talk more about her feelings and you're there to listen, if she starts crying, tell her you don't mind it. Make reassuring statements especially if it's a moral topic (maybe they did something in the past). And remember: it's never their fault. It's always someone else's. So when discussing the trauma, don't make her feel like shit even more or tell her that she fucked up, no, build on the narrative and let her know that yeah the motherfucking world is a ghetto, full of magazines, full clips, and heavy metal.

Once she's spilled the beans and now you have her all wet, loose leaning on your chest and you have your arm around her squeezing her, gently caressing her shoulder, or maybe caressing her hair, the stage is set for the final touch. After you've thoroughly discussed the trauma, throw a little comment, something generic like, "You're enough". "You'll be fine". "You've done all you could".

This will make her even more attached at this point. That's it. Give her a kiss on the cheeks. She'll want to fuck the ever living shit out of you. Carry it from there, king.