You guys are idealizing good looking guys way too much, if those of you who consider themselves subpar turned into a ultra giga chad thundercock tomorrow your lives wouldnt change much besides being able to sleep easily with some average BPD basic bitches, but you would still face rejection a lot

kukkle1111 · 2023-08-09T14:37:20+00:00

but you would still face rejection a lot

Bullshit.

Your physical appearance literally is the number one determining factor in your life outcomes, be they economic, romantic, reproductive, academic, social, they even influence job opportunities and drastically reduce your risk of problems with law enforcement, discrimination, or prejudice of any kind.

Why?

Because you’re good looking and good looking people are assumed to be good people. They’re not convicted of crimes anywhere near as often as the average person, and if they are, the sentence is much lighter, they’re much less likely to be disciplined at work or fired because employers are more forgiving of their transgressions or mistakes, teachers and professors give them much more leeway and higher grades, and in the eyes of a woman, you can do absolutely no wrong, at all, ever, under any circumstance.

If anything, incels don’t idealize good looking guys enough. They focus mainly on the ease with women without even considering that if they could wave a magic wand and become Chad tomorrow, it would also solve literally 100% of all their problems in life.

Talagius · 2023-08-09T13:57:41+00:00

You will never be worth a conversation if you aren't attractive enough. Literally nothing about you can matter if you are ugly.

I'm 4ft2, and it doesn't matter how confident, funny, intelligent, or kind I am. There is nothing I can say or do that is good enough for 5 minutes of conversatin.

My life and personality have never mattered. Those only matter for attractive men

princedune · 2023-08-09T16:36:17+00:00

Nah my life would be significantly better if women treated me like a human

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-09T14:04:19+00:00

when it comes to attraction men have to show qualities that are way more important than looking like 8/10 supermodel with hunter eyes, warrior skull and a six pack.

No, that really isn't true. To get a relationship a man might have to show other qualities, but for attraction, all he has to be is physically attractive. Getting a relationship doesn't have a whole lot to do with sexual attraction or sexual attractiveness especially after a woman's had Chad bang the shit out of her.

platinirisms · 2023-08-09T16:15:52+00:00

I’m 5’7 and brown, I went from a skinny weak nerdy guy with long hair who looked like a teenager who lives in his mums basement into a muscular handsome bearded man who looks like he’s got his shit together.

My dating life flipped upside down based on nothing but my physical appearance alone, I didn’t change my personality, I didn’t become more confident, I went from an incel who couldn’t even hold a woman’s attention to a man who had several attractive woman wanting to date him, solely based on nothing but how I physically appeared to people.

Again, I’m 5’7 and brown. I’m no 6’2 giga Chad and even I noticed my dating life did a complete 180. Imagine if I actually did wake up as a 6’2 handsome muscular white man, i would bet my entire net worth that I’d easily, easily be able to attract some of the most attractive women around. There’s absolutely no question about it.

Surprisingly enough, women do actually want to date attractive men, omg shocker I know. Another surprising fact, women actually don’t want to date ugly unattractive men, I know another shocker!!

Simple fact is if you’re a short ugly man, women are not sexually attracted to you, you can’t persuade a woman who’s not sexually attracted to you to become sexually attracted to you. No amount of confidence or charisma is going to make a woman go from “Ew” to “You’re so hot 😍😍”.

DaggyDogFunkyMonkey · 2023-08-10T05:10:47+00:00

Your life would improve immeasurably if you were Chad. And not just in dating.

Men respect tall, good looking men more and defer to them in meetings.

Random people would smile at you as you pass by.

You’d be hired and promoted more often.

You’d earn over $100,000 more on average throughout your career. $100,000 just handed to you for your height and looks.

Even kids have been shown to respond more positively to better looking people.

Basically, your entire social experience would transform, and with it, you would be filled with an incredible sense of pride, confidence and self esteem. There’s a reason tall, handsome men commit suicide at a fraction of the rate short men do.

ResponsibilityRare72 · 2023-08-09T15:59:09+00:00

Some cope in here ngl, y’all need to face reality

Onee-samas-sub1 · 2023-08-09T15:25:23+00:00

It's still better than nothing but rejection.

Eyesofmalice · 2023-08-09T16:05:18+00:00

You seem quite knowledgeable about that imagined situation you made up.

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-08-09T22:25:19+00:00

Lmao this is the most naive shit I've ever read

Enigmatic93 · 2023-08-10T00:23:50+00:00

Cope level over 9000

Greekghod · 2023-08-09T15:27:26+00:00

Stupid af post

ProfessionalTwo8698 · 2023-08-09T14:34:22+00:00

Sleeping with basic bitches is enough for me.

No_Length_6997 · 2023-08-09T17:12:54+00:00

Thanks for the vote of confidence OP. Yes! We gotta love ourselves more. I’ve always been good looking but never had the confidence to believe that a girl might actually want to talk to me.

I would take it a step further and say that a lot of people who have trouble with women don’t realize how personable and charismatic they are. They just only use those skills with certain groups. If you can banter with a coworker or a male stranger, then you can banter with a female stranger. Could be that babe in your class or that cute girl at the gym.

Lovedbythesunandmoon · 2023-08-09T17:37:19+00:00

These guys need to go to Walmart on the weekends and watch all the ugly short dudes walking around with their wives and kids. Normal people aren't giga Chads. You get a partner by meeting someone at the right place at the right time and hitting it off.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-08-09T13:39:51+00:00

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DurtyDanky · 2023-08-09T22:09:11+00:00

I'm pretty I made a comment similar to this post only for someone to reply to me and play dumb

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