I see so many people here who just assume incels are lazy. They say “just keep spinning plates bro” or “just keep pushing and you’ll find the one!”

I think a lot of people are deluded into thinking they have an internal locus of control on life. They fail to acknowledge their background, privileges and circumstances that led to their current successes.

It’s no different in dating. Just because you go to the gym or keep asking women out doesn’t mean you’ll succeed at all. Most incels here are a healthy weight and have jobs and at least some semblance of life. But despite being normal in every way besides genetics, their romantic success has been 0.

That’s the cruel and bitter truth of life. You can be the hardest worker but it means absolutely nothing if you don’t have the right circumstances and privileges.