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Why most MARRIAGES FAIL: you are not enough people

benicityofgod20

October 1, 2023
18 upvotes
/r/Divorce_Men

The real purpose of marriage.

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Title Why most MARRIAGES FAIL: you are not enough people
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benicityofgod20

Upvotes 18
Comments 18
Date October 1, 2023 2:02 AM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/16woqkl/why_most_marriages_fail_you_are_not_enough_people/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/why-most-marriages-fail-you-are-not-enough-people.1233589
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[–]Hansson2 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I still think that the incentives of free lifelong money is a major contributor to this situation and it is borne out by the facts that overwhelming majority of child support and alimonies are awarded to the ex-wife and that women are in clear majority of initiating divorces.

The basics for this biased incentive is quite clear, to bring in as much money for the so-called judiciary as possible. You cannot really blame women for wanting free money (who would not) but the blame should squarely be with judges and their entourage for their cynicism in breaking up marriages for sake of their own profit. You have the setup here:

https://illusionoflaw.wordpress.com/kangaroo-divorce-courts-and-their-sinister-business-model/

So, it has not so much to do with women but judges and lawyers making as much money as possible on family affairs...This is after all a billion dollar business in many countries.

[–]woundedsurfer 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I’m pretty damn sure I will never marry again. It’s just seems destined to fail, especially since own marriage is currently burning to the ground after a 17 year relationship and two kids. She couldn’t give two shits about destroying everything and slandering me in the meantime.

[–]ProcedureAltruistic3 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

17 years 3 kids here and im definitely not falling into that trap again. She sucked me dry, I'm not letting another one get that close.

[–]berzerker5000 10 points11 points12 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So to save marriage we need to have bigger extended families and/or agree to be non-monogamous.

[–]Melynthos1492 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is most simple terms. Raising kids with 2 people is to difficult, it creates to much strain on the core marriage . Mix that with monogamy and having stretches of years sexless, there is no way for marriage to work

[–]pk2at 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I believe this is a repeat post, but I agree this the reason most marriages fail. Married or not women are lonelier than ever and moving out of their parents home makes them even more lonely. There is no way a man can be provider, mother, mother in law, friend, father, girl friend etc. to his wife

[–]proffgilligan 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But they sure as hell expect us to try.

[–]_vinland_ 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I recommend diving into this guy's stuff. It's redpill af

[–]Melynthos1492 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I love this channel, tons of good advice at finding new women after divorce

[–]Kitchen-EngineerX 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

His video about women being loyal to feelings and demanding the world align with those feelings; with men being loyal to concepts (and willing to be miserable to stay loyal to a concept like duty or faithfulness), changes the way you look at every couple in your world.

[–]proffgilligan 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm gonna look for it, but if you happen to come across the link I'd appreciate it muchly. tia

[–]Realistic-Tone1824 -4 points-3 points-2 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Incorrect. Most marriages succeed.

[–]_vinland_ 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

True. 55% of marriages succeed. 45% fail. Still shit odds

[–]Realistic-Tone1824 -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Your might want to check the odds for first marriages.

[–]woundedsurfer 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Second marriage divorce rates are over 60% in the US. Moral of the story, DON’T REMARRY!

[–]Realistic-Tone1824 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't think that's the lesson here. I think it's you need to be a different person the second time around.

[–]woundedsurfer 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That definitely helps.

[–]ww3historian 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s hypergamy, stupid

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