So the wife and I have been fighting for 18 months. Still having sex and saying I love you up until 4 weeks ago. She decided to leave and go stay with her mom. I thought maybe time apart would help. But more and more it fucked with my head and then I found out she filed for divorce. Weird part, it’s been a week and she said she isn’t sure when she wants to serve me. She just did it to cover her basis. Maybe she’s having a change of heart and she won’t admit it. Or she’s playing mind games and it hanging it over my head until she decides to serve the papers. Not sure if they expire after a while?!