“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” My dude if your shot/miss ratio is 0/50, it’s time to put the ball up and go home.

FinancialMarket4985 · 2023-11-04T07:30:25+00:00

I agree. No one should be expected to undergo relentless rejection just to get into a relationship. Rejection is a sign that you are barking up the wrong tree. And if its failing that much, you need to travel to a different market where people are interested in buying what you are selling. (self-improvement is also important, but I think it's overplayed)

And this idea that mass approaching is an "old school" way of meeting people is baloney. Most guys in the 1940 and 1950s and married the first or second person they dated.

kukkle1111 · 2023-11-04T05:44:50+00:00

If you need to approach to begin with, you’re fucked.

If you were attractive to women, they would make it known and obvious to you.

And since all women are attracted to the exact same type of man, if one woman goes out of her way to give you positive attention, then that means it’s already happened one million times before. If it’s only happened once and you have to spend time stewing about whether or not it was flirting, it wasn’t. She doesn’t like you. None of them do.

hudibrastic · 2023-11-04T12:00:15+00:00

As I read in someone’s tweet: I already have the “No”, what I go for is the public humiliation

Who says those things have no idea the impact constant rejections has on one’s self-esteem, and self-worth

FortniteAbobus · 2023-11-04T16:10:26+00:00

The possibility of the existence of the woman that sexually attracted to sub5 5' balding indian janitor isn't zer0. So you MUST spend all your life to find her.

EugeneCezanne · 2023-11-04T02:36:49+00:00

I don't believe in the numbers game. If you're missing that many shots, you aren't shooting right and you should go back to the gym to work on your form.

But there is no valid alternative to the game. You could fill your time with anything else. But you can't get what you get from actually winning.

philseven12 · 2023-11-04T05:25:32+00:00

I'll disagree with this, 50 women aren't enough. And 50 women not responding on an app means less than nothing. 50 women from all in the same area is insufficient, and 50 women from the same demographic is weak data to base an overall conclusion of hopelessness on

Most dudes aren't willing to take a vacation and travel somewhere out of their comfort zone. Most dudes aren't willing to relocate to a place where you have a stronger market value in dating. Traveling is demonized by women and men it appears. Most dudes don't have the social skills to approach women properly, much less be able handle themselves well around people in general. If you can't go out and meet random people and establish respect and be included/invited in on whatever they have going on, expect to have trouble with women until this is fixed.

Most dudes are masters of discord arguments and 4chan warriors but in an actual bar or club you're unable to politic with people properly. I can go to a bar damn near anywhere and sit by myself and within an hour be invited over to have a drink with whatever group is around me

Anything I suggest that requires physically getting up to comfront insecurities is hand waved off as a hopeless endeavor. The black pill has truth but it's not absolute, the women that you come across on reddit don't act in real life the way they portray themselves on this app.

Black pill can make you soft and weak because you have an excuse and rebuttal for all suggestions allowing you to not have to take real steps

EastSideSlasha · 2023-11-04T06:44:19+00:00

That’s cuz y’all use the numbers game when y’all look like ass n fat and got no rizz

Y’all need to improve first

Title	“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” My dude if your shot/miss ratio is 0/50, it’s time to put the ball up and go home.
Author	TourAcrobatic3005
Upvotes	39
Comments	58
Date	November 4, 2023 2:06 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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