Hello,

Last saturday night I was supposed to go clubbing with a friend. Friend tells me he needs to go to a birthday with his GF and hell meet me later at the club. I text this chick i met on Tinder to ask whats shes up to. she didnt have much planned so i said lets meet up for drinks and go clubbing later, she accepts and brings a friend along.

I meet these chicks in the club. i told them to wait at the smokers area. When i walk in they were waiting for me and she introduces me to her friend and stuff. we go to the dancefloor and dance a bit. I wanted to go to a more quiet place so i took her by the hand and take her along. I could tell she liked that.

next hour shes grinding on me like crazy. all touchy and stuff, ofcourse i do the same. we get some drinks, she even orders me some. I get a text from my friend hes not gonna make it. I tell the other chick hes not gonna make it, so she should do her own thing. She meets up with this guy so its all fine. she keeps telling me to go for the chick I was with. I could tell they both liked me.

after some more dancing and touching and stuff I go in for a kiss, she doesnt really get into it. I laugh look her deep in the eyes and do it again, this time she kisses me passionately.

After some more grinding i make sure she feels my boner and i make some thrusting moves, she starts dry humping me.

after some time she gets a text from her ex-BF or something, she has to leave, and they leave.. it was like 1 hr before the club closes so I stay and have some fun.

I get home and she texts me her Ex started a lot of drama. I said cool, too bad you had to leave tho. I went to sleep after that.

next day I wake up and text her if she had anything planned (I prefer meeting up in other places than clubs). Well... she didnt respond after about an hour, and i can see she read it. I text her : "lets meet up ;)". no response.. that night i ask her if everythings ok (with the ex-bf drama and stuff). she says "Im with my family today" so she like ignored my messages. I tell her cool, ill call you tmw.

I havent called her tho. I just dont really get where i went wrong. I think I actually liked this chick and it fucking hurts my soul. im 27 btw shes 23. I have a good job (engineer), nice car, i look good (seriously), dress good, 6ft tall, she was kinda short lol. ive been doing boxing since i was 8yo. I lift and stuff, amazing body. Ive been with over 50 women so i know a thing or two. But everytime I actually like someone this shit happens and it just fucking hurts.. Its like im only good for flings...

based on my story i think maybe i shouldnt have over texted (I usually never do that), but it cant be that simple... I just dont get it and would appreciate any feedback. Also im thinking on texting her after a couple of days but im not sure.