On the one hand, men whose partners want to have abortions against their wishes are mocked in the most cruel manner possible by average women/feminists, and do not receive a bare modicum of understanding or empathy. On the other hand, a man who doesn't a kid and his partner does is told to "man up" or that he "should have kept it in his pants". In both cases, the conversation centers around the desires of the woman above all. If the woman wants to keep the kid, we are expected to be the knight in shining armor and be the best father possible, not because we actually give a shit about the kid, no, make no mistake, it has absolutely nothing to do with the child. We are expected to do this to keep our woman happy. On the other hand, if the woman wants to abort, these same feminists have the gall to consider a man cruel if he simply refuses to pay or drive his partner to the clinic for an abortion he may or may not even want. Female choice, male responsibility, this is the theme all the way through. Men are allowed no emotions, no desires, no independent thought of any kind on this issue. We are completely at the whims of our partners, and we need to feel exactly how women want us to feel.

Feminists and a very large portion of modern women don't give a shit about born children, unborn children, and they certainly don't give a shit about men either. All that matters to them is female comfort, all the rest of us are simply tools for their pleasure to be used and discarded at their convenience.