Should I disclose the fact that I am talking with other people?

iNEEDurload · 2022-10-18T20:19:38+00:00

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Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-10-18T20:33:41+00:00

Until you decide to make one of them your girlfriend, you should not disclose that you are talking to/seeing other people. It is self-sabotage. Chances are, the girls are doing the same anyway.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-10-18T21:24:50+00:00

Nah, but once this girl was dragging her feet with me and I called her up and was like -“I just went on a bad date. What’s up? Wanna watch a movie or something?”

Been together like 12 years now.

2022-10-18T20:38:32+00:00

Don't ask, don't tell

Mc_Dickles · 2022-10-18T21:57:31+00:00

Hell to the fucking no

You cut your hoes off when you finally get cuffed

Not cuffed? All is fair

learnbyrepetition · 2022-10-18T21:31:55+00:00

I wouldn’t lie if they ask but wouldn’t tell for no reason if they don’t ask

Forever-Improving · 2022-10-18T22:13:35+00:00

I believe that both people are seeing other people until there has been a discussion otherwise

Tozester · 2022-10-18T20:20:28+00:00

nupollution · 2022-10-18T20:39:43+00:00

Wait it out until things evolve a bit. Might not need to disclose anything if one fizzles out. If things go well with both, you might want to be upfront about your expectations and behaviors. Most people value honesty and transparency, especially if you've gone on a few dates and things are going well.

2022-10-18T20:45:38+00:00

No need for that at all

neversleeps212 · 2022-10-18T22:58:50+00:00

Bro sliding into someone’s DMs isn’t the talking phase 😂😂😂. “Talking to someone” typically means that you’ve been on multiple dates with a person and there is at least an unspoken agreement that you’re likely to continue seeing each other romantically. Flirting with someone on IG is not that…

2022-10-18T22:07:32+00:00

I’m talking to like 6 dudes at once and i was already up front about my whole situation from the get go. They all agreed to still talk to me.. honesty is always the best choice. If they cant handle the truth then they weren’t worth it anyways.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-10-18T21:02:26+00:00

If handled with the right attitude, disclosure=social proof, which plays to your advantage. If u ever seen any of those stupid batchelor shows its the same concept, all the women know that they are all connecting with and dating the same guy which pushes them to overtake their competition. Girls would rather share chad than have anything to do with Brad, if they both like you, u probably a chad in their eyes, don't hide anything just don't be hurtful/disrepectful about it.

punkman01 · 2022-10-18T21:30:48+00:00

Please remember to keep your integrity intact. It's the mark of a good man.

DryAdhesiveness6579 · 2022-10-18T23:37:54+00:00

atomant88 · 2022-10-19T06:35:25+00:00

why would you ever think thats a good idea to disclose?

2022-10-19T06:53:48+00:00

Sure. Why not show them your porn collection too?

Gaydame · 2022-10-19T08:52:03+00:00

Nah. After a certain time you'll want to DTR

Until then, fill your boots!

skyman583 · 2022-10-19T12:59:50+00:00

No, you don’t have too

Lukezoftherapture777 · 2022-10-19T18:02:25+00:00

Do you think the women are doing that lol

lqtys · 2022-10-19T19:52:49+00:00

No need to tell but don't lie either.

Title	Should I disclose the fact that I am talking with other people?
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Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	October 18, 2022 8:15 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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