I'm not really fit physically, but that I'm trying to change. I get that you first need to make conversation, get to know her and all that. I'm fine at that. What I cannot get is how to escalate basically, how do you Tip toe around the subject to see if she's interested. Of course there is no solution that is the answer for every situation,but there should at least be a guideline or something. Can any if you help me out here?