Whether you want to get laid a bunch or just get a hot gf, you are bound to get rejected, A LOT. A little over 50% of women are in relationships, and even from the ones who are single, not all of them will be interested in you. It’s also true that the majority of very attractive women are either taken or extremely picky.

Today I approached a girl. She was a very beautiful Ukrainian girl with a fat ass (9.5/10 in my book). We had a perfect connection, but of course she was already taken. Not surprising for a woman of her beauty. However, this actually raised my self-esteem instead of defeating it.

The fact that I was able to have such a good interaction with her shows me what is possible. If I ran into the same girl in an alternate dimension, there is no doubt that we would be fucking. The vibe was there, and it seemed like she was actually disappointed that we couldn’t hang out.

I realize that if I keep putting myself out there and doing approaches, it is only a matter of time before I have that same connection with a hot girl who actually is single. In other words, each rejection is a step towards success.

No matter what happens guys, don’t give up. There is a girl out there who will meet your needs. You just gotta keep putting in the work to find her (or them). Keep approaching. Keep upping your charisma and confidence. Keep working on yourself. It will happen if you are consistent.

But that’s the key: consistency. Any guy who has a poor mindset will not succeed, which is why few guys do. You can’t just wish a girlfriend or fuck buddy into existence. You actually have to put yourself out there and do the work.

But if you ask me, it’s not even “work” because it’s actually really enjoyable. Interacting with women allows you to grow and learn about yourself and others. So don’t see it as a chore, see it as self-development because that’s truly what it is.