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[–]Ok_Artichoke3645 79 points80 points81 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Isn’t this post a copy and paste of a post from a few weeks ago?
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/u57wc2/cold_approaching_is_really_insane/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
[–]hairyhairyveryscary 51 points52 points53 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was just about to say this seems really familiar lol. Who tf would copy and paste a field report from someone else
[–]Netherus 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Who tf does this? /u/StainedShip81 must be a god damn loser..
[–]depth_charge_ 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
apparently they’re bots that try to farm gay internet points for some reason
[–]nordik1 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And this sub continues its downward spiral....
[–]GoblinsStoleMyHouse 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol, what the hell
[–]LilSkills 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus christ...
[–]putcoolusernamehere 115 points116 points117 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just make sure to understand in doing this that getting an IG in 30 seconds is no guarantee of anything. Especially when you spend no time to build rapport, daygame has a very high flake rate. You’ll likely have to have 100 interactions like this to get 20 numbers to get 10 to respond to one text, to get 4 on a coffee date, to maybe have a relationship with 1. Worth it imo, as 1 relationship is greater than the 0 you’d have without it, just temper your expectations a little about how great a 30 second convo like this was. This sub just tends to get a lot of posts from guys who have 1 good interaction in their first week of cold approach and build unrealistic expectations of it. It’s a numbers game and you’re going to have to get used to having so many interactions that on the surface level appeal to have went well, that you’ll never hear from again.
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[–]ShiftReasonable4066 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not true. Girls flake no matter what
In my experiences id say the longest meaningful connectful interactions got me the most flakes
Interactions can't be hyper short. And trying to form a genuine connection with a girl is an amateur mistake. Its a waste of time. They're not going to convert
Keep your interactions like a movie trailer. The people in that business know how to captivate a persons attention. Follow examples of professionals
[–]burakbenxd 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't keep track of how many cold approaches I do. I literally go approach. But out of 5 in one day, 2 numbers, and 1 date lol. Well; I don't know what to make of it haha
[–]ElegantGary 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So lazy of you to copy someone else’s post from THE SAME SUB.
[–]CloutComputing 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I could've sworn I saw this EXACT same post a month ago
[–]gulaschgel 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a copy paste
[–]MrBlack__ 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Had an interaction like this, she didn’t even accept my IG Follow😂 she put it in my phone herself
[–]TooMuchJibberish 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you got really lucky with that interaction lol
Either way: Good job
[–]Celtic50 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re not going to be anything more to her than another Instagram follower buddy
[–]CompetitionFair7686 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Day game checklist:
Pick up line with the humour (not necessary but the humor is fine) Check ✅
Building a solid connection to avoid flaky numbers: Missing ❌
Flirting to make her feel wanted/desired and to create sexual tension: ❌
Qualification to make her feel valued, and justify your interest in meeting up again: ❌
Kino: ❌ No touching at all, not even a high five. Too platonic.
The conversation is too safe, generic platonic, so it shouldn’t even count as seduction. If all your convos are like this with women, they will all friendzone you.
[–]ZetaParabola 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
teach me master
[–]ElegantGary 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If someone approached me like that I’d be like “WTF is an Instagram?”
[–]carlos1973633826 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should of went right there to eat pizza. Noob
[–]depth_charge_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Almost guaranteed no response. You built nothing, no feelings, no touch nothing.
[–]Prestigious-Sense942 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I should be approached like that. 👍🏻
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