Why is does TRP generally advise to block/delete women after a breakup?

2comment · 2018-03-11T11:36:41+00:00

Because TRP advice is generally aimed at apprentices and journeymen who can easily backslide, not for established masters.

Swelfie · 2018-03-11T13:41:44+00:00

If I don't play guitar and don't plan to, why would I subscribe to reddit's /r/guitar forum? At the least, it's noise I don't need. At the worst it's a constant reminder of a mild feeling of guilt for never having picked up the guitar.

DaftMD · 2018-03-11T14:48:47+00:00

Same reason spoiled food belongs in the trash and not in your fridge. Keep your kitchen clean.

vandaalen · 2018-03-11T13:03:00+00:00

Why can't you assclowns use the search function just once before making posts here? The same bullshit has been asked just two days before.

You block them so you do not waste time, energy and attention on them anymore. you will never have to think about what that message meant that she sent you, what that post meant, where she tagged you or whatever. She is gone, dead, forever.

Learn to not give a fuck with other people and topics. This one is not debatable.

Stop trying to find ways to be able to stay in contact with your bebe gurl oneitis. She is your past and not your future and even if you might be able to fuck her once more you would just be a disgusting and pathetic chump who sieved through his thrash to find something edible.

le_dod0 · 2018-03-11T12:47:31+00:00

Do you still buy cigarettes after you stop smoking?

IncommutableOwl · 2018-03-11T12:03:11+00:00

It’s usually the first step someone takes to internalize TRP. Yes, we can say that there will always be a trace of the person somewhere but it beats allowing them access to you directly. Cellphones, email, and social media make it ridiculously easy for someone to feel connected to your life.

If the individual later decides that this step is no longer needed then go for it. Most if we’re honest will not get here especially if it was a case of oneitis. Better to remove the toxic person out of your life rather than punish yourself by saying you need to get use to it.

Aggressive_Beta · 2018-03-11T13:43:28+00:00

Because there’s no reason to be giving attention and validation to women you’re not fucking

klepzeiker · 2018-03-11T16:53:19+00:00

I have experienced a very different reason for blocking exes than other replies are saying. In principle I agree with you; immediately blocking an ex and generally just abrubtly cutting all contact comes across as childish butthurt vindictiveness.

So about 3 years ago I ended a 1 year, committed LTR. It was the relationship where I first started applying TRP and I managed to uphold a decently strong frame for the most part. As I ended it I calmly explained my reasons, answered her questions, gave her the closure she seemed to need and even agreed to remain "friends." Every few months she would message me saying how much she still misses me, thought about me a lot while she continued dating other guys. But eventually it stopped and she seemed to have finally been able to let go and move on.

That is, until over TWO YEARS after ending the relationship, a new girl I was talking to on facebook started sending me screenshots. This ex was talking to her about me, telling lies and half truths and generally paint me in the worst light possible. Turns out she hadn't really gotten over me, she just changed tactics. I think she was trying to deprive me of other options, hoping I'd break and come back to her. I don't know for sure, because I never confronted the ex about it. Just immediately blocked that poison out of my life, and realized I should've done that way sooner. Who knows how many other girls she'd poisoned like this? Perhaps not even just girls, who else had she been talking to?

Never gonna let that happen again. So, immediate blocking it is, and I recommend it to everyone. Girls might know the dictionary definition of the word "honor" but they don't FEEL it. All they go on are their sollipsistic emotions.

(Apologies for any strange wording, not my native language)

anonlymouse · 2018-03-11T14:02:34+00:00

You're always free to do whatever you like. If it's not working out for you, you might want to consider following the advice given.

HaywoodJablome69 · 2018-03-11T17:48:30+00:00

Its actually not the easy route, its the hard route because most havent internalized it, they are hoping the ex gets in touch, because they have the Oneitis thing nagging at them.

Getting off an ex is like getting off drugs, chemical reactions in the brain. http://redpillbreakup.com/red-pill-no-contact-proper-execution-to-help-you-recover/

SelfUnmadeMan · 2018-03-11T20:54:22+00:00

Stoicism is a nice concept, but people are human. You want to prove to yourself that you are some macho shit by dancing with the fire? Go right ahead... ain't nobody gonna stop you.

If I am stuck in a hole, I do what I can to climb the fuck out. I don't sit in there and pretend there is no hole.

Self-honest · 2018-03-11T22:52:11+00:00

Because there are billions of other women and this one in particular might try any number of things to fuck with your head. There's no reason to expose yourself to it.

The_Litz · 2018-03-12T13:39:33+00:00

Drunk booty calls are an unfortunate reality.

cl3537 · 2018-03-11T17:14:40+00:00

When it comes to plates, FWB even an LTR how you handle the breakup determines 100% if she ever comes back.

You really need to not react, or give her the closure she wants and just move on. You need to put her completely out of your mind which is easier if you have a lot of other women around to help.

Blocking/Deleting someone is just Butthurt stuff, but we are men and we too easily fall into the oneitis trap.

Dmva100 · 2018-03-11T15:36:07+00:00

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Title	Why is does TRP generally advise to block/delete women after a breakup?
Author	vyrulence
Upvotes	13
Comments	28
Date	March 11, 2018 11:30 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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