How do you not be boring?

Ayebooboobingbong · 2022-05-31T02:40:42+00:00

Enjoy your life and stop thinking so much about what other people think. So whatever you want to do that’s within the law and not dickish to the people around you. If you want to dance on the sidewalk to one of your favorite jams just go for it man, just don’t get in peoples way or be obnoxious. Life’s too short and the world is too fucked up not to appreciate what you have and make the most of it

fucking_pump · 2022-05-31T01:04:59+00:00

Be genuinely excited and curious about life. If you’re not bored you are less likely to be boring.

MrBlack__ · 2022-05-31T00:49:35+00:00

Act excited to do things, that’s it.

Yo dude, wanna go to the store

Boring guy: Yeah You: yhhhh it’s a bit cold let’s get some hot chocolate too (and you don’t have to OVER DO IT)

That’s it

Yellow_Squeezer · 2022-05-30T23:18:53+00:00

From easy to diffficult:

Every once in a while, do / say something that is not expected.

Laugh a lot.

Tell interesting stories.

Travis_Varga · 2022-05-30T23:36:00+00:00

Develop and pursue passions according to what you think is best, according to your independent thinking for your life and happiness.

Don’t pursue stuff just so you don’t appear boring to others.

yeahthatslifedarling · 2022-05-31T03:37:57+00:00

How to be interesting.

Talk and do things that interest you.

It's that easy. Now you think you have to say grandiose things, but in fact you just repress and stress yourself by doing so, which ironically makes you less interesting, and people feels self-consciousness from a mile away. You could like ants, and just passionately talk about ants, even people that don't give a shit about ants will listen to you.

The hard thing here is, can you peel off the bark hard enough to know what truly interest you. I haven't made it that far.

intelectualycurious · 2022-05-31T00:13:16+00:00

By expressing yourself

nelsne · 2022-05-31T02:44:09+00:00

What do mean by "How do you not be boring?" If you're constantly called "boring" then you're probably going for the wrong type of girls. If you're an intellectual then go for other intellectuals and don't go for the wild party girl types

samozleg · 2022-05-31T06:59:47+00:00

I'm a boring person, commenting to come back later

Homelss_Emperor · 2022-05-31T07:54:00+00:00

Try to be boring and you will end up exciting

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-05-31T08:52:53+00:00

I'd say how to be more inetesting?

You have 2 choices

How you talk and what you're talk about.

How you talk so you change your tonality, you speak slower or faster, you speak higher and lower and if you change that regularly you're already more interesting.

What to talk about? The best choice is that something that you're interested in it naturally makes you excited so you gonna be more engaging or just a simply interesting topic that not every people really expert at like idk martial arts, photography, or life lessons that you might learn from others. There are basically countless interesting topics in the world so just pick some that you're also interested in and learn about it

Another way that I tryna apply is that have a more interesting life. You might think that it's expensive but it's not at all. Simply get used to leaving your house, meeting new people, going to shops that you're never been to, ordering something from somewhere that you're never done before, and so forth. Just think over what you usually do as a habit and simply do it in another way. Good luck

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-05-31T15:31:03+00:00

Self amusement. Game yourself. Make yourself laugh and bring social value to other people by having fun. Stop caring about what other people think. More importantly, practice not needing validation from anyone.

If you say a joke, and it makes you laugh, you don't need anyone else to laugh. Your not tied to needing validation from people. Then, just game yourself, self amuse, etc...

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-31T02:46:52+00:00

By not being boring.

disneygirlaltaccnt2 · 2022-05-30T23:08:14+00:00

Why would someone think you're boring, and if they did why would you care?

TheMemeinator_420 · 2022-05-31T04:44:54+00:00

I think that if a person is boring it’s because they have a boring life. Have hobbies and interests that you are passionate about and can have interesting conversations with people about. I think the most important thing is to just welcome new experiences in your life and so fun shit just living life to its fullest will give you plenty of interesting stories to tell. Lastly, one thing I think is important is to just not give a fuck what others think and just care about enjoying the moment. I just went to a music festival and there were two types of people there. People jumping around dancing and singing and getting in the mosh pit and people standing there with their arms crossed looking like they are having a horrible time. I bet the former are much more interesting and less boring than the latter. Be the person that has a great time instead of the person with their arms crossed this will help with women and more importantly just overall life enjoyment.

incognito3107 · 2022-05-31T06:53:50+00:00

Try out new things, be brave and confident, express lots of emotions, be illogical and out of the scheme from time to time, don't force conversation or action.

Complete-Salad2314 · 2022-05-31T11:54:07+00:00

By having a good time yourself, regardless if you're in the company of a woman or not

Lighthero34 · 2022-05-31T12:10:15+00:00

First, let's think about reasons that you're different.

What type of things excite you OP?

nbh1995 · 2022-05-31T13:20:03+00:00

Besides living an interesting life you could embellish and extenuate your mundane experiences...you could also make stuff up and become a better conversationalist or story teller. But be careful to not do those things too much because then neither you or the person you are talking to will be able to distinguish between a lie and the truth..

Title	How do you not be boring?
Author	VeliVoy
Upvotes	18
Comments	29
Date	May 30, 2022 11:05 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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