Women as a source of motivation and reason to get your shit together

Noffets · 2022-05-24T23:10:41+00:00

I think we all have this ideal mindset before the woman you loved fucks you over or cheats on you. then you realize what a joke that was and you should have focused on bettering yourself for your own personal future you yourself will experience, and not spend the extra effort putting others first. nothing wrong with putting others first just keep your eye on #1

anothrowaway666 · 2022-05-24T23:48:34+00:00

Nah dude, the only thing that matters is you or your family if you have a healthy one.

Your gf or spouse will never love you unconditionally.

willgo-waggins · 2022-05-25T00:47:25+00:00

I don’t know about you but I’m 51 and my market is as big or bigger than ever.

lmao_lemo · 2022-05-25T00:41:16+00:00

At the end of the if your women leaves you, you only get your lambo

meteorness123 · 2022-05-25T00:41:29+00:00

If you want marriage and a family you can absolutely achieve that goal. There are women on dating apps looking specifically for that. Idgaf about marriage or having kids. I’ve seen so many of my friends marry into what quickly becomes a miserable, sexless marriage and I’ve decided I’ll pass. You should follow your goals and your dreams.

skybluetaxi · 2022-05-25T00:24:52+00:00

I don’t know what’s spoken about here but all this do it for yourself sounds good but often isn’t reality. Even as a non-believe I’d say God made women for just this purpose and it’s why civilization has advanced so far.

A word of caution, if you want just one good woman and a family.

Start at 38:30 https://youtu.be/cJhU54fLTGo

Ignore all the cook, clean, he’s sleeps w/ other women if that’s all not your thing. Point is you should aspire to be expert level to get the best option you can and maintain it for the long run.

Emmy-bby · 2022-05-24T23:03:06+00:00

It looks insecure when u change urself just for women bc women’s standards are a lot more flexible than dudes standards you fr just have to show us real affection and interest that we don’t get from other men easy asf just bring flowers to a second date and she’s urs

meteorness123 · 2022-05-25T01:26:42+00:00

1) Don't have kids out of any sort of need
2) Don't have kids because you are lonely
3) Don't have kids to give your life meaning
4) Don't have kids out of some notion of "eternal life" or living forever. Your kids are NOT you. They are their own people. They have their own consciousness.

If you start a family based on any of these selfish notions, you will probably screw your kids up. Having kids has to be a completely selfless act that you do for the good of the world/society/God and no other reason.

Now that we've got that out of the way, I hope I have challenged your ideas of wanting to be a father.

bemore_ · 2022-05-25T01:37:12+00:00

You're motivated by a family not necessarily a woman. It's short sighted but better than nothing I guess. If that's the life you want then it's fine

Snakehead004 · 2022-05-25T02:01:34+00:00

older, you realize the dating market shrinks. Women are getting snatched off and the dating pool goes down and down

Not if you keep improving yourself. Why do you think you see so many beautiful young women with guys 10+ years older. Sure $ plays a role but not always. My good friend is a 10/10 lawyer and she's dating a guy 15 years older.

I can date more 21 yr olds now than when I was 25. Wayyy more..

2022-05-25T02:13:19+00:00

You want to better yourself beyond doing it for women. Having tons of money is great. Just traveling alone would make you MUCH happier. Not to mention, as long as you got your shit together, dating in other countries are MUCH easier than the US. Having money allow you to go to other countries and experience that.

ThinkAndLiveFree · 2022-05-25T03:18:31+00:00

Tzz 4, , 0' a NJ

2022-05-25T03:36:41+00:00

But I thought mens value increases with age lol

Title	Women as a source of motivation and reason to get your shit together
Author	meteorness123
Upvotes	17
Comments	50
Date	May 24, 2022 11:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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