“I like tall tatted toxic men who treat me like shit”

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-18T15:47:15+00:00

Because those tall, tatted, toxic men have other qualities that are extremely attractive to women and that average or "nice" guys don't have such as being ripped, confident, charming, fun, and exciting. Them being treated like shit is an accepted side effect for them to be able to get a guy with all those attractive qualities.

If you can acquire those qualities and not treat them like shit, congrats you have become a high quality man.

pringlydingly · 2022-04-18T15:39:47+00:00

Social media is not real life.

Distraughtsugardaddy · 2022-04-18T16:09:22+00:00

2 things.

Tall tatted men are sexy since it shows protector capabilities and good in bed/fit/healthy
Now the toxic part, women who love toxic men are either toxic themselves or have a low self esteem and think that's what they deserve

so..be fit and show protector capabilities, have boundaries and be a decent person and you'll end up with a good woman, not a tiktok bimbo.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-18T15:51:06+00:00

The same reason men like hot bitchy girls who didn't give them time of day, when there are perfectly nice and polite average and frumpy girls willing to be with them.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-04-18T15:33:24+00:00

Don't worry about stereotypes. Focus on becoming your best self and you will have no trouble finding a woman who wants what you're selling.

2022-04-18T15:41:03+00:00

Strong emotions can be like a drug, and women possess very potent hormonal system. They treat relations more like fun and game, not some sacred spiritual sex connection. Still, you can find a girl that is slightly different, in the way you like :)

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-04-18T15:55:05+00:00

Don’t rely on Tik Tok THOTs to guide you on what an attractive man should be

hagakurejunkie · 2022-04-18T20:49:23+00:00

(What you're about to read is not a brag, but maybe it can give you some insight)

I am that guy and I'll tell you why I get more girls than I should.

I'm 6'3"and around 285lbs with broad shoulders.

I'm heavily tattooed (I get tattooed about 3 hours a month, every month)

I've been boxing and training muay thai for years. I've spent a month in jail for aggravated assault after getting into a bar fight with a wannabe gangbanger after he slapped with a female friend of mine.

I also run a business, take care of my parents, read 50-70 books a year, build furniture, and repair my own vehicles myself.

Needless to say, I'm busy AF.

I can talk to pretty much anyone after bartending for a dozen years and working all sorts of odd jobs in my life.

I realize from past relationships that any woman I get involved with is going to take up a significant amount of my time, energy and resources that I could otherwise devote to other things. So I'm very standoffish when I first meet women. I'm the prize, you have to earn me.

Things I do and how I operate that make me "toxic":

I'm seeing like two or three women at a time. I'm not dating anyone, one girl lives in another state, another girl lives in a nearby city. Number 3 is always rotating.

The first two girls understand I don't like drama and I'm not their boyfriend and they are free to do whatever they want. They know how to keep their mouths shut. Everything is smooth with those two. Whatever else they do when I'm not around is none of my business.

The rotating number 3 doesn't seem to understand this concept. She thinks just because we're fucking, that I'm somehow her emotional tampon and should immediately drop everything to solve all of her stupid nothing-burger problems.

I do none of that.

She also thinks she has some sort of claim on me just because we're fucking. Like I won't fuck her friends or something.

Again, we're not dating, I'm free to do whatever I please.

Needless to say, number 3 gets replaced often.

Other things I do:

Everything I do revolves around these two principles: I am fucking busy and I never want you to think a woman "has" me. If she knows she has you, she gets too comfortable and lazy. You must keep her on her toes and worried that you might leave at any moment.

I'm not going to text you all day, you probably won't get more than a sentence or two text from me all day for the first 6 months we're fucking. Don't even be surprised if I leave your place and you don't hear from me for a week, even after we just fucked.
I'm into sex, I LOVE sex. I came to fuck and that's what we're doing. If you have the idea that you're going to have a headache or not be into it, I'm turning around and walking out the door as fast as I came in because you have competition for my attention.
The moment I come through your front door, Imma get that ass. Once we fucked first, and my balls are drained, then you can tell me about all the silly little things that are on your mind. But not before. (I learned a long time ago just by doing this will keep her from cheating on you.)
My business is absolutely none of your business, you know very little about me and that's the way I like it. You don't get to go through my phone and you will NEVER know who the other girls I'm seeing are.
I'm not going to chase you. If I hit you up and you don't get back to me, you lost. There is no reschedule, you have competition.
I HATE being late and if you're not on time, I'm gone. I have left a girl over her being 4 minutes late.
If you bring up your ex in conversation, I will tell you I don't want to hear about him. If you bring it up again, I'm leaving.
I say no to bullshit like: "Can you pick up some milk on the way over?", "Can you hold my purse?", "Can I borrow $20 for a week?"
I give utterly no compliments over text or outside the bedroom. I'm NEVER going to compliment you about your hair, your clothes, your make-up or anything. The fact that I chose to fuck you on the regular should be compliment enough. I learned this a long time ago that if you don't compliment a woman, she'll work her ass off to try to get you to compliment her.
Start an argument with me over text and you'll get "K" and I'll disappear ( I have other options and I don't need you if you don't want to play by my rules of "No drama").
If you ever talk down to me, if you ever try to play a bitchy power move or insult me, I will dress you the fuck down and leave.

What women call "toxic" is a man who has options and a backbone and knows what he wants.

mpolo630 · 2022-04-18T15:32:32+00:00

I’m 47F and have never encountered any other female that wants what you described. None of us want to be treated like shit.

Edit to say, tall and tatted is fine but not required. toxic and treating us like shit is what we don’t want.

itsiceyo · 2022-04-18T15:36:02+00:00

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ModernKnight1453 · 2022-04-18T15:58:29+00:00

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2022-04-18T18:30:47+00:00

Many of them are damaged. Avoid relationships and stick to 1 night stands

kettlebell_workout · 2022-04-18T16:16:19+00:00

It’s all about emotions.

Women crave strong emotions. They want them as bees want honey.

Those men give them those emotions.

Pedalcrunch · 2022-04-18T17:18:17+00:00

I don't get it either? can't understand who would want that?

Title	“I like tall tatted toxic men who treat me like shit”
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Date	April 18, 2022 3:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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