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[–]saryiahan 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move on. She blew you off when you made plans. Your self respect is more important than her
[–]norwegiandoggo 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Even if it means something you don't have any good action to take here without seeming desperate. Ball is in her court, so focus on other women..if she changes her mind she might send you a "hi..." message at some point without any other text in it. That's the sign it's the right time to rent a combine and harvest your crops.
[–]Hopeful-Werewolf-463 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
So if a girl leaves me on deliverd on snap for 5 days should I move on?
[–]White_Mocha 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d say so. 5 days is a long time
[–]norwegiandoggo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Depends if your last message warranted a reply
[–]Hopeful-Werewolf-463 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I felt like it did
[–]norwegiandoggo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If it didn't contain a question then it didn't warrant a reply
[–]Hopeful-Werewolf-463 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It did contain a question and she left it on deliverd for 13 days and just opened a day ago then saved it. What does she gain from doing that?
[–]norwegiandoggo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Maybe she doesn't want to date you, so by doing this, she gets a message across to you that she's not interested.
[–]Hopeful-Werewolf-463 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bet
[–]Hopeful-Werewolf-463 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Should I delete the message then or unadd her lmao?
[–]norwegiandoggo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't matter what you do
[–]JTcruise 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pal..do not spend a year in this scenario just to be in the same spot with her a year later. Take our advice and move on.
[–]Brief-Lock9158 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move on. Someone watching your story doesn’t really mean much I tap through it daily without ever actually looking at what it is. If she didn’t respect your time she just might not respect you. Focus on making yourself happy and look out for different connections
[–]Mir_man 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let her get back to you.
[–]Important-Quote9544 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Move on
[–]samkhanu192 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
IT’S REALLY THAT SIMPLE…
[–]Visualize_ 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are questioning if you should move on that likely implies you should move on. I mean you have it better than some guys, other men won't even have the instinct to move on and continue to pine for a girl and ultimately lower their self respect by wasting time on girls not worth their attention
[–]putcoolusernamehere 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Yes you should move on from focusing on her exclusively, you shouldn't have done that to begin with.
No you should not move on from her entirely, send a follow-up message in a week or so. Will probably work only like 10% of the time though, so keep that in mind.
[–]addoracsgo 4 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
What should I follow up with?
[–]lildudefromXdastreet 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah ignore the other dude. She blatantly disrespected you. Just move on and don’t waste your time on this broad
[–]Visualize_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this advice is wrong for a subset of guys. If you have no other options, then yes its worth to comepletely forget about her and focus on gaining abundance. But if you already have a rotation going, there's not really a harm in sending a text a week later because it's a shot in the dark, but the main difference is the guy with abundance already is truly outcome independent.
[–]putcoolusernamehere 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Idk, my text game is shit. I just know following up has a chance of getting her out with you, whereas not following up doesn't.
[–]Asclepius555 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think the chance is the same whether you follow up or not. She can always get in touch with him.
[–]putcoolusernamehere -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That just unfortunately doesn't happen much. Guys must take initiative.
[–]Asclepius555 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Initiative doesn't have to involve follow ups after nothing from her
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if she text you saying “hi” just respond with “hey” and don’t expect anything out of it, just pipe
[–]TerminatorReborn 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just think about it, if a girl you are interested invites you to hang out, are gonna ignore her?
[–]Theory_Agile 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Act like she fell off the face of the planet.
[–]Shadow__Account 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You could text her again acting like nothing happened or addressing it but makelij clear you are not mad or emotional about it, rebuild a fun convo and make a date again. That being said, this will come back to bite you in the ass. This girl is not very much into you and that won’t change.
[–]r1bb1tTheFrog 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also don’t confirm the day of. Just show up
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