Approaching a girl checklist: Did I miss anything?

Hartwigg · 2022-02-22T03:44:13+00:00

• Laser eye contact • Deep, low, relaxed voice • Baby steps escalation, handshakes, high fives, arms touching, maybe hugging if the interaction is going really well. just do all of that in a natural and slowly way • Get her logistics a soon as possible • In the first few minutes position yourself a little bit to the side while talking to her so you don't block her way • Sometimes say stuff like "I'll need to meet a friend in a few minutes", so she can see you won't be holding her forever and got other stuff going on

now what I took from courses

• A little bit of brazen attitude, bold and shameless in your approach • If I'm opening direct, I'll say something like "excuse me, hi (little pause) Girl in the blue shirt who look like a art curator (comment on whatever items, clothings she's got and what vibe she's giving) I was heading to (whatever) Then I saw you crossing by, though you were cute and decided to risk it all and come hit on you. nice to meet you my name is **** then handshake her • If you opening direct you should be clear about your intent, let her know you there to hit on her, make the interaction man to woman • Be self amused • Don't give her your number, either you get her number or you both exchange numbers • If you feel she's feeling overwhelmed by being approached you should use statements of empathy so you can put her at ease "You look a bit nervous, I know this is random" • Dont ask too much about her, instead make assumptions, observations, cold read, comment on her vibe. • You should always lead the interaction • Always go forward into the interaction, if she's start talking about random shit that won't get the interaction nowhere, bring the topic back to the interaction, again you should make this man to woman interaction • Hold the tension, don't try to desperately fill the silence, don't go nodding on everything she says.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-02-22T04:40:55+00:00

Don't be fat.

Ok-You-1912 · 2022-02-22T03:04:23+00:00

Don't be horny or thirsty. Jerk off before your date or approach so you don't start simping or giving her off vibes.

ChewyButterMilk · 2022-02-22T04:48:04+00:00

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2022-02-22T10:40:29+00:00

I like to yell really loud to exert dominance and maybe turn super Saiyan one day

Ok-You-1912 · 2022-02-22T03:23:17+00:00

Remember to jump up and down to get your balls then approach

whirleymon · 2022-02-22T03:21:40+00:00

- Walk up. Say "Hi"

PrintergoBrrr2020 · 2022-02-22T04:37:29+00:00

Be Gay AF

ld20r · 2022-02-22T11:10:04+00:00

It’s funny and ironic for how often Feet are looked down upon within dating that a lot of emphasis and expectation is weighted on wearing shoes.

2022-02-22T13:38:15+00:00

Be yourself. Don't be someond different cause it's a first date. Let her know the real you.

trendafili_i_zi · 2022-02-22T14:59:21+00:00

Not to be negative but I think you should always be clean, groomed and dressed well no matter if you are planning to pick up girls or not?

ikeepon · 2022-02-22T15:26:12+00:00

Having no expectations is big. The more you can be unattached to outcomes the better.

stuDying44 · 2022-02-22T02:12:48+00:00

Don’t you forget about being yourself, don’t change your personality around girls, stay strong to your believes and virtues

Zyzz2179 · 2022-02-22T12:53:24+00:00

Be attractive. Don't be not attractive.

Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-02-22T12:30:15+00:00

Be a 7-10 in the face

Don’t be ugly

Be a chad

2022-02-22T10:35:54+00:00

I think a little subtle waist touch at the right moment - like someone almost bumps into her and you want to guide her out of the way - always does well

2022-02-22T07:24:15+00:00

Take a shower, use perfume or refreshing chewing gum, take care of your hair, shave yourself, don't get too many things on you, smile, lower and slow your voicetone, keep straight posture, look at her with confidence, stay relaxed...

2022-02-22T12:58:00+00:00

I think a lot of the advice sounds too convoluted and complex. Just relax, girls are just people like you and me. It doesn't take that much effort to approach them.

Woujo · 2022-02-22T13:12:49+00:00

Having a checklist is not going to be helpful. The human mind can only keep a few pieces of information in working memory at one time, so trying to memorize a long list every time you approach is impossible.

Just work on one thing at a time, and focus on having fun.

ObamaWhisperer · 2022-02-22T13:15:10+00:00

The best part is when you learn to incorporate these into your lifestyle. This just seems like a list of things you SHOULD be doing REGARDLESS

-Twyptophan- · 2022-02-22T16:04:35+00:00

On the first point: consider buying a tongue scraper. My breath became so much fresher after using one

Localfugtive · 2022-02-23T01:37:24+00:00

I will never wear flat ass shoes 😂 I like being able to move fast 💨

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-02-23T06:38:48+00:00

Have a game

Dominate & lead

Don’t simp around

If u fail those, ur list wont save ur ass

Title	Approaching a girl checklist: Did I miss anything?
Author	Zealousideal_Boot256
Upvotes	100
Comments	52
Date	February 22, 2022 2:10 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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