How do you know her feelings are real?

OKKira · 2021-11-24T16:22:47+00:00

It's really simple: see if she's willing to do things for you.

whotfiswho_ · 2021-11-24T16:47:10+00:00

Here are some questions you can ask yourself to get an idea:

What’s the conversation like? Are you always initiating and carrying the conversation? Does she ask about you and the things you’re up to? Is she spontaneously checking up on you to see if you’re okay? How’s the quality of your time when you’re with her? Does she seem uninterested? Always on her phone? Just dry and hard to connect with? Is she attentive? And to reiterate OKKira’s comment, is she willing to do things for you? Does she play the damsel in distress when she needs something, then turn into a “girl boss” when you need help?

AK1010 · 2021-11-24T16:25:17+00:00

You can't tell but with experience and age you'll learn to spot shitty behaviours. Always put yourself first even you in love because if you don't love yourself first, you'll be susceptible to become a bitch ass simp and they despise this more than anything else. It's okay to share your feelings but don't show weakness, they always use it and unless you are strong enough to handle the shit sandwich they sometimes throw where you can call out their bullshit and get them to apologise just avoid it bro haha.

Listen to Patrice O'Neal and his views on women, you'll learn a lot.

daddysgotanew · 2021-11-24T18:31:42+00:00

The biggest sign is if she comments about material things all the time, or makes hints suggesting you in a provider role. I was dating a chick who constantly made comments about my car. It’s 16 years old but in immaculate condition. Way nicer than the 2014 shitbox she was driving. She cared way too much about it to the point where it completely turned me off. Like bitch I drive this car because I wanted it specifically, and I don’t give a fuck if you think it’s not “cool” or expensive enough. I could buy a brand new $50,000 car but I don’t want one. Get lost

theosamabahama · 2021-11-24T17:41:23+00:00

If she is falling too fast for you, that can be (although not necessarily) a sign that is interested in something. Either your money or attention. If she falls in love for you fast she can fall out of love fast. That's what my ex did at least. So watch out.

Also, look at her past history. Does she usually go for one type of guy ? What do those guys have in common ? Does she jumps from guy to guy pretty fast or does she chooses her partners carefully for long term relationships ?

Alextryingforgrate · 2021-11-24T19:18:03+00:00

If you dont have money, fame or social status and wants to do things with you, she probably likes you.

kazuechan · 2021-11-24T23:46:20+00:00

Woman here. I know the tricks women try to play to get the upper-hand. The key thing is to analyze if the actions and words are matching. If you ever find yourself confused then she’s playing you like a fiddle. If it’s not an absolute yes, it’s a no. If she allows there to be confusion, it’s a NO. Period point blank.

The easiest one to spot is a beggar. The girls that aren’t scared to ask and beg for materials. Initially you might fall into her trap because it’s the first time you’ve met a girl who’s direct. Giving into her requests every single time will place you in the simp category and you will be milked of all your resources until you have none.

Second and the hardest to spot: the push-puller woman. If a woman is putting you a dead bedroom situation, she does not like you. Would you simply sit around and not touch a woman you claim to be attached to? Yeah, she’s not emotionally in love with you. Keep it moving. It’s hard to leave sometimes because you might cling onto the idea that she’ll change and compromise. No. She won’t. Talking and making half-asses promises can’t change a woman’s feelings for you. Sometimes women hold intimacy over your head to get an ego boost. They want to see how low you’ll go for pussy. Leave her and her low impressionable self-esteem. There’s too many women in this world for that.

CompendiumDigital · 2021-11-24T15:41:37+00:00

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gangoni · 2021-11-24T16:11:09+00:00

Everyone is using everyone.

Men want someone to fuck, care for their offspring. Women want a dude who can protect and provide.

We can pretend we aren’t , but the only people who had genuine feelings for you were your parents, cared protected loved you when they didn’t need to, could’ve aborted your ass or give you up but they didn’t.

throwaway11zx · 2021-11-24T16:47:44+00:00

There is no way you can know if a person's feelings are real or not.

froze_gold · 2021-11-24T19:20:23+00:00

Her actions will tell more than her words will

pieonthedonkey · 2021-11-25T01:34:10+00:00

She will tell you. If you don't trust her enough to believe that, the bare minimum, the relationship is doomed anyway. Cut your loses and work on your self esteem, so the next time a girl tells you she loves you, you believe her.

awakened_celestial · 2021-11-25T01:35:21+00:00

They weren’t..

mabden · 2021-11-25T00:08:19+00:00

Check practical female psychology for the Practical man

Cyberfaust11 · 2021-11-25T03:01:26+00:00

Women don't have feelings. They don't know love.

They will always use you for money, fame, jealousy, social status. Always.

NateHate1402 · 2021-11-24T21:50:22+00:00

You don’t.

Narcan9 · 2021-11-25T05:57:27+00:00

While an interesting question, who wants to bet if the OP has significant fame, wealth, or whatever to be concerned about?

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-11-25T02:11:07+00:00

To adding to all the comments, give them space, if she's really interested in you she will make contact with you

bandsupjay · 2021-11-25T15:11:35+00:00

What I like to do or know how a girls serious is how compliant or submissive she is. Sometimes you just know if a girls down with the program or not based on how she responds to you. If she’s friendly it’s usually a go. You could also always invite her on a date and whether she shows up or not is your signal. If you’re worried about money, fame and allat, don’t show her that. Save your cards for later on, let it be a surprise to her she’ll like you way more. And plus women don’t like men who show off, it shows insecurity that you can’t get her without that.

Radio_Unique · 2021-11-28T19:55:27+00:00

As a woman, If u can actually make me jealous or angry

Title	How do you know her feelings are real?
Author	caoboi025
Upvotes	48
Comments	36
Date	November 24, 2021 3:40 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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