Would pretending to be a male feminist work?

SaltLeader3687 · 2021-11-24T01:56:18+00:00

No. its counterintuitive but women actually love men that challenge their opinions. Its refreshing for them after meeting so many men that will simply say or do anything for a morsel of sex

My suggestion is to be authentic. Lying about your beliefs to get laid is downright dishonorable and also counterproductive.

I once got in a political argument with a raging feminist at a party. Later it turned into a ONS where she asked me to do some pretty degrading things to her. go figure

Apprehensive_Area997 · 2021-11-24T01:50:32+00:00

Bro stay away from women Jesus fucking Christ.

Don’t you realize how evil you sound just typing this. That’s some Ted bundy level shit.

Hot_Jelly_6318 · 2021-11-24T04:33:18+00:00

Holy shit, I cannot believe you're seriously suggesting this. I get being cynical about things, but this is taking it up to 12.

Real talk: find something that you like to do that gets you around people. You're more likely to be successful in what you want to do if you're around people and not lying about your values.

sharararara · 2021-11-24T02:30:17+00:00

Gross. No. Stop.

Who hurt you?

sharararara · 2021-11-24T01:55:27+00:00

Fucking pathetic idea. I just died a little inside.

Women's issues should be taken seriously, because they're serious, not used as some tool for dating inept males to get laid.

2021-11-24T04:56:29+00:00

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strikerx07 · 2021-11-24T14:08:15+00:00

Why would you want to pretend being one of the least attractive stereotypes?

iambabyshark · 2021-11-24T02:03:25+00:00

No. Women don't want someone who'll agree with them on anything, much less a man who'd compromise on himself to please her. Be genuine in your opinions even if they conflict to hers and she'll respect you

ask-martin · 2021-11-24T02:33:35+00:00

You need to do some serious work on your own maturity and morality tbh before you go out trying to connect with women. The mindset that this question comes from isn't a healthy one

traybro · 2021-11-24T02:38:08+00:00

How not to get laid 101 lmao

thecondoner · 2021-11-24T02:16:35+00:00

Don’t pretend to be a “male feminist” be a feminist. Also don’t pretend to advocate for women so you get laid. Just stay away from anyone with a vagina

anon-redditor01 · 2021-11-24T02:29:51+00:00

Not all women like 3rd/4th wave feminism. Look for women with a brain🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

maliciouscom · 2021-11-24T02:31:04+00:00

Don't be a simp.

sharararara · 2021-11-24T01:47:31+00:00

For some women, yes.

Best to not try and reinvent yourself in that kind of a way. If you're going to reinvent yourself, go for the tried and true things that work.

-Improve your physical appearance at the gym

-pick a passion/hobby and get really fucking good at it

-climb the ladder at work and improve your financial situation.

All three of those things will also impact the way that you view yourself, making you more confident, which is one of the most important variables in attraction.

rddcvbjnbvcddxx · 2021-11-24T01:55:55+00:00

Don’t pretend to be a beta, just be yourself. Put the time in and the right people will come into your life.

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-11-24T02:28:19+00:00

I'm sure looking like a weak minded lemming will land you all sorts of pussy.....

Start wearing a dress when you approach women as well. You'll be just like them.

SnooMacarons6242 · 2021-11-24T02:38:49+00:00

Will not work

PrintergoBrrr2020 · 2021-11-24T03:21:24+00:00

Dude, Have you noticed that all the feminist date biker dudes with tattoos, get in bar fights, and wear leather jackets?

stanthemilkman88 · 2021-11-24T08:24:22+00:00

Lol. Sneaky fucker game.

2021-11-24T02:04:53+00:00

Yes i can confirm it does

Nearby_Advance7443 · 2021-11-24T13:54:31+00:00

Yo, dude. On one hand, I don’t think you should do this. You debase yourself pretty hardcore. I once saw a guy who dressed all alternative, passionately spouted hardcore liberal ideas without really thinking about them, and gave me shit for using the term “bitch.” And I really didn’t like him, but I wasn’t exactly sure why. Then it hit me, he was a “feminist” to bang feminists. I was the same way once upon a time, but I never went that fucking overboard with it. But on the other hand, I’m guessing as others have that it’s been a while for you having gotten laid. I’ve gone through a dry spell or two myself. Still currently in one. And I must say, it’s pretty hard. But I do agree with the people who say to do the tried and true ways. Not only are they more effective, but it’s just really much better for your sanity. Don’t be doing that stuff to get into women’s pants, be doing it for you. Sex will come if you just hone yourself, and you get the even better benefit of feeling pretty fucking awesome about yourself. Personally, I’ve put a lot of work into bulking up and writing a novel about my most dysfunctional relationships. And although it’ll be cool if and when that work leads to sex, it feels pretty fucking great to not be focused on getting laid and to just be doing the things I love. It also makes flirting a helluva lot more fun. Not always focusing on an endgame and just practicing, seeing what works and what doesn’t. Sometimes saying pretty despicable things and laughing it off (last night a girl joked that her boyfriend beats her, and I ran with it to the point where her friend got super offended). And when you’re having that much fun with it, you’ll find that it’s so much easier and less of a process you need to put active thought into to meet women. The moment to say, “Yo, can I get your number?” will practically fall into your lap. Just chill and don’t debase yourself by wasting time devoting yourself to things you don’t actually believe in. People can sense that conflict because you’ll be ripping yourself into pieces. Focus on things you actually care about.

RSDAbhijeet · 2021-11-24T17:17:17+00:00

If you're doing anything to impress her.. whether it be this.. or doing consecutive 2 backflips.. you would never get a single woman who's emotionally and mentally strong. Learn to express your true self. These are just tactics. You want to learn seduction.. first learn to express your true core self

JobRevolutionary946 · 2021-11-24T17:46:08+00:00

Women catch on to pretending, be open to have discussions where you can voice your opinion without offending them. Be genuine, but definitely do not be overly passionate about your own opinion, be a good listener and active conversationalist

2021-11-25T01:45:56+00:00

You should be the a feminist, regardless. You should read the Second Sex by Simone DeBeavoir and work your way to bell hooks. If you believe women who are human through and through, you are a feminist.

Title	Would pretending to be a male feminist work?
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Date	November 24, 2021 1:45 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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