[Help] I'm 29 and never had a woman consider me attractive before.

effreek · 2021-10-20T07:51:51+00:00

how many girls are you approaching?

If you've hit the gym and stuff and improved your fashion etc, then all that's left now is to approach lots of girls and show some intent.

There's no magic methods to 'seduce' a girl who isn't into you i'm afraid so forget that. But you put the odds in your favour by hitting on many girls. That's the game.

Therocksays2020 · 2021-10-20T06:38:02+00:00

What efforts did you make to become more attractive out of curiosity

spicy_simba · 2021-10-20T09:06:54+00:00

This is a good question, this is completely normal.

Women will not come to you because you are a better or worse man. It's much more random than we like to think, but humans can not handle random and always try to rationalize positions.

Women do not know your value and are not to use as measurement of your value. You know you are a great guy who is doing his own thing.

Now here are some concrete actions, ask your networks to help you meet single ladies, mention that you are looking forward to have a partner to your friends and they will keep it in mind. Once you done that don't think of it too much and keep doing fun things, socialize and grow you social circle.

This is not a linear process or a direct equation of your effort, it's like playing a slot machine from time to time and one day it will Jackpot into finding a partner that matches you.

My first date I had after 30, I also thought something was wrong, it's completely normal, am sure you will make a lady happy someday. Try not to think of it too much and enjoy what you doing meanwhile.

AelfredRex · 2021-10-20T14:16:41+00:00

Sure you have. You just too busy looking inward to notice.

20Humble5050 · 2021-10-20T15:08:22+00:00

What country do you live in? If it’s America, your options are to save up enough money for leg-lengthening surgery and craniofacial osteotomy, or try dating abroad. If you have done self-improvement to the extent you imply, and aren’t hideously ugly or a dwarf, it might not only be posssible, but easy to get a girlfriend there despite being totally out of luck in the USA, as our dating market is one of the worst in the world with insanely high looks and height thresholds.

CoinTimeU · 2021-10-20T06:34:19+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Sl7jz0qNbH0

Yarmanite · 2021-10-20T06:55:59+00:00

How is this seduction related

channyfanny123 · 2021-10-20T15:11:56+00:00

I think mystery method will help you out greatly. Here is the link to the audio book if that's your thing.

TheBurgessChurchill · 2021-10-20T15:26:30+00:00

You've got to think about what states you're putting women in when you're talking to them. It looks like the issue is that you don't know what to say when you talk to women. Your looks are not a problem. I've seen models go out with guys that don't have a nice car, or an exciting lifestyle or are rich or have a muscular body. So I can 100% guarantee that it's not your looks. Send me a message and I'll be happy to help you. I can tell you exactly what to say and what to avoid during a conversation.

Goulronk · 2021-10-20T18:49:57+00:00

Well buddy it’s a sign to work on yourself get your life together before thinking about pussy

toadyweed · 2021-10-21T00:39:32+00:00

...try being 40, 😂. Honestly, good luck. Keep improving, focus on you. It will come.

Title	[Help] I'm 29 and never had a woman consider me attractive before.
Author	Goulronk
Upvotes	23
Comments	42
Date	October 20, 2021 6:14 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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