~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
[deleted]
[–]Wish-for-death 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It seems to only advice us short guys get is get buff and hope for the best lol
[–]Goku-m 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rich or famous would work too
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The basic and most useful advice is: Invest in yourself.
Focus on your health and your carreer.
Develop your hobbies.
Study and have a plan (even id you change it after a few months/years.
Don’t rely on toxic masculinity.
Try to see a therapist.
[–]truthbomb999 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Lee priest is only 5-4 but had women
[–]Imreallytired2301 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Buff and beard goes long ways
[–]2Fast2Real 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Probably becoming a good musician is the best thing.
[–]OneThousandYardStare 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
good advice. Self Investment will go a long way. I've said it before, Prince was a worldwide sex symbol (at one point literally a symbol) and he was 5'3". You got this brother!
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A lot of “Bruno Mars vibes” in this tip...
[–]BombDome 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Keep spitting game man with confidence you’ll find the one trust me
[–]No-Focus1569 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
See Im not worried about finding the “one” just yet ill meet her whenever no rush but in terms of I get rejected almost instantly because of my height…like damn im just tryna hit 😂
[–]MisterShogunate 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
If you can't be tall, be wide. Get buff and big af. Women just want that primal feeling of being overpowered, protected and they desire to be with dominant men from a physical standpoint.
[–]edgynotemo -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
No the fuck
[–]MisterShogunate 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I've seen some legit big short dudes with attractive women. They are always jacked and has some domineering aura.
[–]edgynotemo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but your claim that women want to be overpowered does not sit right with me
[–]Miguel_Legacy -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Then you don't understand female nature.
[–]edgynotemo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude I am a female wtf 😭
[–]Miguel_Legacy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't mean anything. Women can't even describe what they're attracted to (scientifically proven through a university study)
[–]MisterShogunate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a subconscious evolutionary drive. It doesn't mean much in the traditional sense. Just like dudes have the desire to go to war and we blow off that urge through sports. The desire to dominate and be dominant is simulated in sex and is part of a healthy bedroom dynamic otherwise trying to hold yourself back due to political correctness will just severely keep you from enjoying your sexual experiences.
[–]One-Leg7314 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Bruh and I feel very short at 5’7” literally most blonde girls where I live are a taller or my height. It bothers me so much because women nowadays want their guy to be like 4 inches taller than them. Such a bummer that shorter girls than me usually aren’t my type
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Height is a cheat code in getting girls
[–]JustAGamer024 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Hell no, I'm 6'4 and if you aren't looking for a Girl who is shallow then being tall is nowhere near enough to impress her
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well I wasn’t really talking about relationships. Height is a cheat code in pulling and sleeping with as many hot girls as possible. If you want a high body count that consist of lots of hot women, height will help tremendously. But relationship will need other factors.
[–]JustAGamer024 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
OK yeah that's fair, Height has never been a problem in my hookups. But I don't want mere hookups anymore, Just kind of focusing on myself and maybe someone will come along lol
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The things ill do to be your height
[–]JustAGamer024 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And the things I would do to not be balding, focus on your strengths not your weaknesses bro. Plus hooking up with lots of hot women won't make you happy, talking from own experience. Just focus on yourself and live a fullfilling life.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro. Hair is not really important. Height trumps Hair anyday of the week
[–]converter-bot 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
4 inches is 10.16 cm
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
[permanently deleted]
[–]One-Leg7314 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Washington state USA. I said the blonde girls are mostly 5 7 and above but for guys now that u mentioned are like 6 2 and above
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]One-Leg7314 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cali is very different than where I live. Lots of homeless people gangs and drug addicts. The lifestyle there is very different so I couldn’t really tell you how the dating life is over there
I live in san diego and can say the dating or hook up life out here depends where you hang out usually downtown is half and half because it requires $$ pb there's alot of white people and some tend to be racist but thats beach vibe, north park is more hipster and open minded, Del mar is older rich $$ ladies who usually look for young guys
[–]lightskinnedMex 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe stick to your own race and stop trying to get girls superior than you
[–]Uoger -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shut the fuck up.
[–]porn-chicken 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have no lack in confidence and can talk to women just fine but feel like because of my height they treat me as if i’m a child
Nice. You have the same experience as every other man on the planet that can hold a conversation. Remember, most men are not attractive to most women. You cannot just grace them with your presence and expect to win them over.
This doesn't mean you are ugly or undateable or whatever else people may read into it - it means you need to persevere. Yes, women will turn you down, and they will cite your height as a factor. Develop a thick skin and keep on improving yourself. Don't solely focus on your appearance. By acknowledging this, you can start to care less about your personal inadequacies.
If you can talk to women, that's great. You've got more going for you than the average man. Next comes actually having some game to develop attraction.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Height’s something you can’t change at all so don’t even waste time thinking about it. Just be dominant wherever you are.
What do I mean? Get fit af, get your friends right, get your family right, get your dreams some goals, get your mentality right, get your culture right, get your spiritual life right. Get your house in order!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Believe me. Doing all of that and investing your time into each of those things will attract the kind of people you want let alone person to be with. Cause honestly a girl only cares about height as the final determining factor for her man. And she’s just that, a girl.
A GROWN WOMEN is what you’re looking for and she don’t play with jokers so you gotta be on top of your game. She knows what she wants inside somebody and you should too in EVERY aspect of your life AND DO IT.
You got to walk the walk brother. Cause that’s what’s going to help you for the rest of your life
[–]Narcan9 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Date short women. Go for Asians and latinas.
I've got a pretty short friend. He married a Japanese woman. Problem solved.
[–]ProphetPhilosophic 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The reality is that height is almost always the first thing they notice. Don't let that bother you though, focus on highlighting your strengths. Improve things like your personality, game, the size of your muscles and the size of your wallet.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Search up limb lengthening surgery. I am also considering in taking it
[–]Wish-for-death 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Im short too but I hope you don't do it, it sounds expensive and painful for something that doesn't truly matter in the long run
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No pain no gain.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
What value do you bring to others?
[–]No-Focus1569 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
As in conversation value i can easily pick up flow and keep a conversation going. As in personal value im really smart and can work on cars, computers, phones, and just about anything else myself. I take care of my hygiene. My finances are somewhat in order but im focusing on school more than earning money currently. What could i be lacking?
[–]KingoftheNorth412 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Carrying a on a convo or flow or whatever you mean doesn’t offer a lot in this situation. That’s not “sexy”.
Your skills are interesting. I would try to come up with an ice breaker about phones since you can fix them. Make her laugh.
Stop looking at your height as a disqualifier. You’re speaking/thinking that into existence. It’s a limiting belief. Look up “Tony Robbins, limiting beliefs” for more.
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bigger towers have collapsed before
[–]KingoftheNorth412 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
“That’s ok I don’t date 6s anyway”.
[–]No-Focus1569 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Doesnt seem very reliable thats more of an insult 😂
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well she’s not attracted to you so what do you have to lose?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh, you’re tripping. Girls love it when you can be funny and hold a solid conversation with them
[–]No-Focus1569 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fashion and muscles. Short dudes look ripped way easier. Lift weights
[–]Atgy1996 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perhaps your not being vulnerable enough(i.e expressing your true thoughts) or you might be giving off a needy vibe (like I wanna smash badly)?
[–]MoStuntin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Work out a lot
[–]flosparity 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Genuinely think confidence and humour can get you really far!
[–]AVGVSTVS_OPTIMVS 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Show those shallow women why height doesn't matter
[–]AruiMD 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
money
Grow a beard and workout thats all you really need as long as you look muscular and manly then it shouldn't be a problem I'm 5'6 and all my exes have been taller than me
[–]RussianBoa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be confident as fuck and surprise these girls. They'll start fantasizing about you. imagine your sexual energy and channel it properly. "your taller than you but ill still make you call me sir and toss you around". Use it to your advantage. The threshold of expectation is not as strict for you. Meaning, they don't expect you to be alpha with them due to your size. So if you're even a little bit alpha - they'll be like whoaa and caught off guard.
[–]Uoger 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell em that all your height went somewhere else, if you catch my drift.
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]Wish-for-death 16 points17 points18 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Goku-m 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]truthbomb999 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Imreallytired2301 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]2Fast2Real 19 points20 points21 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]OneThousandYardStare 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]gillmanblacklagooner 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BombDome 17 points18 points19 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]No-Focus1569 22 points23 points24 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MisterShogunate 14 points15 points16 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]edgynotemo -5 points-4 points-3 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]MisterShogunate 4 points5 points6 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]edgynotemo 0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Miguel_Legacy -1 points0 points1 point (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]edgynotemo 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Miguel_Legacy 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MisterShogunate 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]One-Leg7314 5 points6 points7 points (15 children) | Copy Link
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 1 point2 points3 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]JustAGamer024 0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]JustAGamer024 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]JustAGamer024 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]converter-bot 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]One-Leg7314 1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]One-Leg7314 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Imreallytired2301 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]lightskinnedMex 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Uoger -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]porn-chicken 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Narcan9 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ProphetPhilosophic 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 -1 points0 points1 point (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Wish-for-death 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]No-Focus1569 1 point2 points3 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]KingoftheNorth412 -1 points0 points1 point (7 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]KingoftheNorth412 -1 points0 points1 point (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]No-Focus1569 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]No-Focus1569 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Atgy1996 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MoStuntin 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]flosparity 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AVGVSTVS_OPTIMVS 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AruiMD 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Imreallytired2301 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RussianBoa 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Uoger 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link