Why do women dont text back when cold approaching? Is this normal?

clearyourcorners · 2021-08-31T19:37:17+00:00

Be aware that most women have an ABUNDANCE of options and their social media and phones are full of guys attempting to take them out or date them. Just have to accept that is the nature of the game. Sometimes they are busy or they forget to reply. Do not take it personally. However we need more specific information if we are to give you advice on your style and approach.

AelfredRex · 2021-08-31T20:05:52+00:00

They give you their number to make you go away when you approach them, then they can ignore or block you later from a safe distance.

Do cold approach, expect the cold shoulder. This is why you always want to go in warm to get a warm reception.

GordonGecko69 · 2021-09-01T03:45:28+00:00

Because your game was weak. Most guys wrestle a number out of a girl. Their goal is number, number, number. They don’t lay down solid rap and have a lukewarm interest. That shit is wood. It’s like sales. A sales opener is so pushy requesting a call back that the customer agrees just to shut them up. Then the closer calls and they say not interested and hang up. That wasn’t a real lead and your number wasn’t a real number. Solid prospects only. Don’t waste your time.

Mujerhanna · 2021-08-31T21:42:03+00:00

I give my number because I’m scared of men and how they would react! I rejected a man before and he wanted to beat me and i had to run! In my opinion its better to meet women organically like in some event and closed places and both of you get to have a little chat and see if you like each other! In the streets its odd cause as a woman I don’t even know the man enough to like him.

idrinkapplejuice42 · 2021-08-31T22:01:05+00:00

You didnt build enough rapport in person. Give her a reason to want to continue talking to you before you get her number. Girls honestly pass out their numbers fairly easy but if you dont leave an impression theyre not likely to reply to your texts.

SyreksDungeon · 2021-08-31T21:27:28+00:00

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UniqueAway · 2021-08-31T20:08:58+00:00

If you were too attractive she probably would.

Nofapdeity · 2021-08-31T22:21:42+00:00

SAME ISSUE bro I started cold approaching at college and that’s the same thing that happened to me.

We had a good vibe in person, now she doesn’t text me back. I tried twice, so I’m not texting her again BUT I will say hi and talk to her if I see her in person.

bigbootynopussy · 2021-08-31T23:38:30+00:00

Some women have anxiety and get scared. Some women think it’s creepy. Some women are just confused on what they want in their love and get scared. Each woman is different eventually one will be receptive.

SalesAficionado · 2021-09-01T04:09:47+00:00

It’s part of the game. You have to realize that most numbers are going to flake and ghost. You need to play on volume.

Papa_Musk · 2021-09-01T06:43:54+00:00

skip getting numbers and do an insta or impromptu date, if she doesn't want to hang out with you when you meet her she probably doesn't want to later, focus on being more attractive, fashion, work out, conversation skills, seduction skills etc.

Training_Passenger79 · 2021-08-31T22:40:24+00:00

It’s because you’re a total stranger. If you know any women, try and figure out how many go on dates with people they don’t know. The # prob isn’t very high. It’s not something women do.

Pick ups are a good for exposure but otherwise a waste of time.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-08-31T19:43:42+00:00

Maybe u text them “sup”?

Otherwise- they like men texting them, # doesn’t guarantee anything. Especially only few ones.

kalifo_yt · 2021-08-31T23:12:54+00:00

probably didn’t like you in the first place , you definitely doing something wrong when you approach

2021-08-31T23:16:25+00:00

I’m not sure if the texts your sending are Generic, small talk, interview texts buuuut keep shit light , joke, send a goofy meme , leave them on read , we aren’t getting to know people over text , set shit up , touch base day of, annnnd let it go , chicks remember how you make them feel , sooooo if your Putting pressure on them they’re gonna remember that, keep it fun

gangweedsavedme · 2021-09-01T02:13:33+00:00

I assume it’s back to square one because she would need a reason to entertain you, so unless you made a ridiculous first impression you’re basically shooting your shot again

Blackstar030405 · 2021-09-01T02:47:12+00:00

2 weeks ago, our office went indoor rock climbing for the afternoon and i met this girl there and things seemed to be going good. when it was time for us to go, i asked to get her number so we can talk later and meet up and she gave me here number. we had a few exchanges over text and tried to set up a date to hang out but she said she would be busy with work and would let me know....but she never got back to me and when i text her again no answer so i just deleted her number and called it a day. after a while this shit starts to get to you...but i try to stay optimistic whenever the next time i meet a girl organically somewhere

tnpersona · 2021-09-01T12:30:15+00:00

Maybe they feel it’s easier to give you their number in the moment and decide. How soon after do you reach out to them? Maybe give it a week or so. That way you don’t seem like the average guy.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2021-09-01T16:27:23+00:00

Go to Bumble and tell prospective women all about yourself. There’s someone for everyone, but be honest. You won’t get many replies but since you can’t reach them, it’ll make you feel less pressure.

bandsupjay · 2021-09-01T17:14:49+00:00

Rejection. Rejected u from the jump, only gave you her number cause women cant say no due to survival reasons

Title	Why do women dont text back when cold approaching? Is this normal?
Author	SyreksDungeon
Upvotes	43
Comments	52
Date	August 31, 2021 7:35 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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