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thethrowowoy · 2021-08-28T22:56:35+00:00

Yup, the better I've felt about myself and the more attention I get from girls, the more I've realised other guys try and bring me down.

It's an intimidation thing. Take it as a compliment. If you can laugh off their attempts to belittle you, you'll leave them feeling even more pissed/jealous.

The worst possible thing to do is demonstrate a fragile ego and have an overly aggressive response to an 'insult'. That's how the feel like they've 'won'.

quantumactual · 2021-08-28T23:25:16+00:00

I had a friend who would try to call me out and put me down in front of people. It was always when I was shining, feeling good about myself and the place I was at, etc. I would always just immediately spit back at him and say something like “yo what the fuck are you doing? Why you gotta be acting like that in front of all these people?” Etc.

It seems like some guys constantly try to be ‘the biggest man’ in the room, and when there’s another ‘threatening presence’, they lash out. Usually it’s nothing personal.

2021-08-28T23:58:14+00:00

If they mess with you they probably like you or think you can take it. Even if they are straight up hating it’s a good sign that they are jealous.

Practice being witty and don’t let their stupid comments get to you.

Safe-Investigator271 · 2021-08-29T00:19:53+00:00

bro theirs competition everywhere and haters and people that will eye ball the hell of the girl u are with out of jealously

Shintaigou · 2021-08-29T08:58:48+00:00

I learned one thing, if a guy insults you it means he likes you.

Darknissxxx · 2021-08-29T01:32:39+00:00

If they do this when you’re around girls or talking to one, act like they aren’t there and maintain focus on the girl. It will make you look better and it’ll piss of the guy

justrollingbye · 2021-08-29T04:09:06+00:00

Take it as a compliment. Haters put others down to make themselves feel better about their insecurities. It’s usually because you got something that they don’t have. There were some good tips on here how to handle those situations. Either Ignore, go along with a witty respond or self-depreciating humor. Don’t let it get to you.

2021-08-29T01:16:10+00:00

Yeah happens to me, I’m a muscular guy and also pretty and I get it all the time. I just ignore them and keep myself composed and that seems to work pretty well. Shows you don’t let other men control your emotions/worth and shows you don’t give your attention to toxic/negative people.

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-08-28T23:56:13+00:00

People resent other people's success. They do that cause its an easy way to justify their weaknesses, indiscipline and life's choice and this feeling is kinda common, I read somewhere that when something bad happen to rich people, it cause some sorf of satisfaction in people who are less successful.

So dont let it affect you, there will be always people who aren't happy with your success.

gangweedsavedme · 2021-08-29T08:59:35+00:00

I’d say turn it into a battle of wits, but context matters. Either they do it out of insecurity or they’re testing you to see how you handle it/ your reaction.

hulk_hogans_nutsweat · 2021-08-29T15:01:42+00:00

We’ve all known that guy at some point, and maybe even been one ourselves. These types don’t bother you if you’re out competing them in the gym or in a sport, but if you’re getting more female attention then suddenly they start getting loud and obnoxious. They’re usually insecure for one reason or another. Ignore them.

Electric_kundalini · 2021-08-29T18:29:46+00:00

It’s just jealousy. My friend always gets jealous when I get an ounce of attention from Women. He starts acting up in front of them it’s really cringe.

Legitimate-Lies · 2021-08-29T01:46:49+00:00

Yeah, while they’re busy being huge pussies, I fuck their bitch

dave_spontani · 2021-08-29T07:12:54+00:00

This is an intersection (no, not the sjw kind) that I love

Some other comments mentioned it already, deal with it in a humerous manner. A friend once told me about the concept of "Agree&amplify" to pass shit-tests from women. The same concept can be used when someone is trying to give you flak:

Him: "How much do you lift br0?" (Trying to compare&compete)

You: "Oh, barely got two kilograms done today. If I'm lucky, I can switch to the pink dumbbells im half a year if I keep up the good work" (Deflecting with funny answer)

Refuse to take that part of the conversation seriously by deflecting their comment with something that obviously does not match the truth. If someone insists on an answer, people will notice that they are being weird and note it down in their head that they are looking for trouble ---> You win, they lose

Not a very buff guy and I only very occasionally get looks from girls but I hope this helps

GordonGecko69 · 2021-08-29T11:03:48+00:00

When you put your best foot forward as a star player, guys and girls will shit test you. Gotta have the stones to make it through that to wear the crown.

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