How to get invited to things.

askredant · 2017-03-24T02:11:26+00:00

Get into school clubs. Preferably something you actually enjoy so you'll have a good time and give off a positive vibe, but some clubs will have more girls than others. For example, a college hiking club will have significantly more girls than a dungeon and dragons club or some shit. Good clubs that come to mind are hiking and intramural sports.

As far as actually getting invited to things, express interest in whatever you want to get invited to. If you wanna go to a party, tell stories or something so your friends know you like parties. A lot of the time, PersonA doesn't get invited places because PeopleB don't think PersonA would want to go because they showed no interest.

Edit: small clarification and spelling

monopolytroll · 2017-03-24T04:54:37+00:00

I don't know if you can, but a good way to get invited to parties is to have your own party.

VDKay · 2017-03-24T07:49:03+00:00

I believe that there is absolutely nothing wrong on going out alone. On the other hand, why wait for people to invite you and dont invite them yourself? "Hey guys. I was thinking about checking out X this friday. Wanna come?" Should work with almost everything. Unless of course you mean events that you must be invited from within in order to attend

SnapSocialGuru · 2017-03-24T04:59:17+00:00

If you're in college, the typical advice you're going to get is: join a club, sport, fraternity, or other activity and problem solved.

That's great advice, actually, because in college it really is that easy. Source: I joined a social fraternity and we threw incredible parties at our house and my social circle was HUGE.

But it sounds like that route hasn't been working for you so I'm going to offer another route.

Download Snapchat, add everyone you know and meet in college, and then start posting cool stories.

Why? Why should you invest your time in an app like Snapchat?

Because it's a great way to market yourself.

It's a great way for you to market yourself to those around you including friends, new acquaintances, and yes... girls too.

Post college, Snapchat was what I used to strengthen my relationships with new people I was meeting.

Whereas most people struggle to maintain a social and dating life after college, I was thriving (ended up with 40+ dates within a 9 months span).

My point is: if you are able to leverage Snapchat as a way to maintain relationships, improve your image... you'll get invited to a lot more shit. People will WANT to hangout with you.

To this day, I still get invited to things all the time despite living an average, 9-5 life. And I have to thank Snapchat for it.

There's a lot that goes into play here, so I'm going to leave you with my guide. I posted it here on Reddit and a lot of people seemed to enjoy it (others hated it immensely, saying "fuck social media") so take it how you want.

Big_TX · 2017-03-24T07:37:16+00:00

Find out what your schools party facebook page is. You'll be able to find parties on that.

reddishknight · 2017-03-24T04:46:41+00:00

!remindme 24 hours

abandonliberty · 2017-03-24T06:01:56+00:00

I'm leading up to approaching

Sounds like you're looking for an easy way out. The suggestions about managing your social circle here are great, but they won't help you with that.

Sort your inner game
Grow a pair. Become a person people want around.
Find your niche
Make sure you're playing to your strengths. You'll have a generally shitty time if you try to force getting along with people you don't naturally mesh with. Don't start there.
Make shit happen
Someone has to do the inviting. Get shit together. Help people have a good time. Provide value.

enkae7317 · 2017-03-24T08:30:36+00:00

Probably...start inviting these people to your own things. Like if you're throwing a little kickback or party start inviting them and they'll in turn invite you to their things. Worked that way for me.

ellisdeee · 2017-03-24T08:58:52+00:00

The majority of the parties I go to are ones I wasn't invited to personally. Depending on the size of you school, there is usually a party neighborhood, and around 10 or 11 if Will be obvious where the parties are. Big apartment complexes are also good spots to check out. If you say you have friends, you do t need to wait for them to invite you, just hit them up early evening and ask them what they're up to tonight. Don't overthink it.

Bumbleblock · 2017-03-24T11:28:49+00:00

!remindme 12 hours

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2017-03-24T14:03:42+00:00

Show up to parties and make friends

jediog420 · 2017-03-24T17:42:29+00:00

You become the person who does cool shit and invites people to your world. Don't be a little bitch

Blubber4456 · 2017-03-24T01:01:51+00:00

!remindme 24hrs

Title	How to get invited to things.
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Date	March 24, 2017 12:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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